We all experience anxiety at times, after all, it is a normal and natural response to stressful and dangerous situations. It is our body’s way of keeping us safe and has been critical to our survival as a species. It can focus our attention, helps us react, and even improve our performance in certain situations. Anxiety is described as uncomfortable feelings of nervousness, worry, uneasiness and tension. A healthy amount of anxiety is perfectly ok and expected but what happens when it builds up and becomes difficult to manage? Signs of Anxiety Anxiety is a common state, it is estimated that one in nine people will experience anxiety in their lifetime. Anxiety affects people in different ways, but it has physical, emotional, and behavioural effects and signs. Signs of anxiety include: Being on edge, restless or irritable, feeling a sense of dread Difficulty concentrating or making decisions Repeatedly checking things or seeking assurance from others Avoiding situations or putting off doing things Change in eating habits – increased or decreased appetite, craving junk food Dizziness or trembling Sweating Racing heart Shortness of breath Physical aches or pain – headaches, stomach problems and nausea, diarrhoea, muscle tension or pain, jaw clenching Sleep problems – disturbed sleep, tiredness, nightmare, teeth-grinding Pins and needles A dry mouth Types of Anxiety There are several kinds of anxiety that can affect individuals and have varying symptoms and triggers. Here are the most common types of anxiety: Generalised Anxiety Disorder is the most common type of anxiety where sufferers feel constantly and excessively anxious about a wide range of situations and issues. Social Anxiety is characterized by an intense feeling of anxiety and self-consciousness in everyday social situations. Severe forms can cause a person to experience symptoms almost anytime they are around other people. Panic Disorder is an anxiety which causes regular panic attacks with no particular triggers. It is bouts of intense fear that are often accompanied by physical symptoms such as chest pain, racing hear, shortness of breath, or dizziness. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is repeated unwelcome thoughts and/or a compulsion to carry out repetitive behaviours that can be difficult to ignore. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) is an anxiety that is triggered by very stressful, frightening or distressing events. PTSD sufferers often relive these traumatic events through nightmares and flashbacks, and may experience feelings of isolation, irritability and guilt. Tips to help with anxiety The causes and kinds of anxiety are complex. Anxiety requires treatment such as psychotherapy in the form of talking therapy, cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) and/or exposure and response prevention (ERP) or in the short-term, anti-anxiety medication. However, there are many things you can do to help you learn how to manage feelings of anxiety. Keep a mood diary- Check in with yourself on daily basis and take note of how you are feeling at different times, rating how anxious you are feeling on a scale of 1-10. List what you are feeling anxious about and if there are things you can do to ease those feelings. Make time- If you are feeling particularly anxious, set aside some ‘worry time’ to go through your worries. When that time is up, consciously focus your thoughts on other things. Challenge unhelpful thoughts- Our thought patterns can exacerbate our feelings of anxiety and lead to negative and unhelpful thoughts. Challenge these thoughts and do not accept them as fact. Ask yourself: Is there evidence that confirms your thoughts Is there another way to look at it If you were to think positively about the situation, how would you view it Talk about your feelings - Telling someone about how you are feeling can help make things clearer for you. Relaxation techniques – Breathing and mindfulness exercise help keep you in the present moment and help your mind and body take control of a situation. Lifestyle factors- Eating healthy, regular exercise and getting plenty of sleep can improve your mental and physical wellbeing and burn off anxious energy. If anxiety is affecting you or someone you love, the Thrive Wellbeing Hub is here to offer advice, information and support on anxiety and for those who need it, we can arrange professional counselling. You can contact the Thrive wellbeing team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294.

When someone asks you “How’s everything going?” is your default instinctive answer “Yeah… busy!” but then you might quickly realise that’s not the perfect answer so you qualify it better by saying “Oh but it’s good busy!”. Is this you? It’s true we’re busy these days as we have an infinite amount of choices to help us occupy our time. There’s no shortage of things to do, people to see or work to be done. But is there a cost to constantly having all our time filled up, even if it is “good busy”? Well it shouldn’t be any surprise to you when I say that there is. Being busy requires the constant activation of our fight-flight (stress) system, even when it is poised at low levels as we expend daily physical, mental, cognitive and emotional energy. Think of sitting stationary in your car with the engine steadily running all day, ready to kick into gear and drive off at a moments notice. But, leaving your engine running for too long can create some issues. Not only does it consume fuel and empty the tank, it also drains the battery, especially if you’ve also got the radio turned up, heat blowing and the lights on. Another serious problem is that the engine can overheat.  I hope you get my metaphor. Even while we sit still at our desks we are consuming fuel (what we’ve eaten) and gaining fatigue (draining our battery), but by being switched-on all the time we’re also stimulating a barely detectable level of low-grade inflammation throughout the entire body. Unlike a high stress event that flames like a bonfire for a few days or weeks, the chronic build-up of this low-grade inflammation from being constantly busy (i.e. work, home, family, friends, community) acts like lava in a volcano, bubbling its way slowly to the surface over several months and years and is now what is strongly linked to being a major cause of many of the serious non-infectious diseases associated with ageing. So how do we prevent the volcanic eruption that could be ahead of us when we get older? Apart from eating well, being more active (sitting less & moving more), spending more time in nature, sleeping routinely and lovingly attending to our most important relationships, we perhaps need to pay more attention to our diaries and our bodies to gain a better balance between stress & recovery (context: recovery during your wakeful hours). By doing this, you may learn how to detect stress better and become even more balanced & resilient! One of the best ways to do this is through silence & stillness. The key thing is that the practice is intentional and you (want to) commit time towards it. You can also learn how to body scan where you “check in” with yourself by noticing your breathing, heart rate and muscle tension. You could also listen to your gut instincts. Or you could follow a guided meditation or mindfulness practice through popular apps such as Headspace or Calm.  Ok, so this week’s challenge is all about deliberately slowing down. Aim to have 2 minutes of silence & stillness twice (x2) a day for the next 7 days. Schedule the time into your diary. If you can, see if you can extend that 2 minutes and maybe try 5 minutes instead, or give yourself a challenge and try a full 10 minutes. Thoughts will come and go and that’s absolutely normal and fine. Just let them, but take notice and be curious. Pay special attention to your feelings and the senses you discover throughout your body. Consider your busy schedule and what needs to be reduced. Enjoy switching the engine off for a few moments twice a day and enjoy the anti-inflammatory benefits of the “rest-digest” system, helping to keep that lava at bay. Article written by Health and Performance coach Dr. Jonny Bloomfield.  Jonny joined Thrive and the Young Professionals at a recent webinar on work/life balance, check out the How to Create a Better Work/Life Balance webinar on YouTube.  Jonny is a Health & Performance Coach specialising in stress, sleep, exercise & nutrition. He has a PhD in Sport Science and worked as the Sports Scientist for England Rugby, as a Physical Performance Consultant in the English Premier League and on Tour with Darren Clarke. Jonny is a qualified Executive Coach and provides Keynotes and Coaching for Organisations to help improve health, wellbeing and performance.

Confidence when interviewing can be a challenge, especially if you are nervous or unsure of yourself, but with the right preparation and mindset, anyone can ace an interview, says Donal Whelan, Managing Director of Lincoln Recruitment Are you in the middle of a job search, preparing for an interview or going for a promotion? Can you identify a common factor that applies to all three?  The presence of confidence  As recruiters, we meet a variety of candidates every day, and while the majority of them have serious potential, something that is not as common among them is the presence of confidence.  Confidence, believe it or not, is a mindset, and something that we can hone in preparation for our job search. Below are some simple ways to communicate confidence during your search, which may make all the difference in you securing that dream role. Fake it until you make it This is an oldie but a goodie!  Very few people wake up each and every day feeling ready to take on the world, but everyone has the ability to act like they are to some degree.  Think about somebody in your office who you would consider as confident. How do they act and carry themselves?  Take note of their behaviours and mannerisms, and try to emulate them while in interviews, the first day of work and while networking. You also have the added bonus of feeling more confident because you are acting confident. That confidence will rub off on the people around you.  Fail to prepare, prepare to fail Unsurprisingly, if you are unprepared for an interview, you will come across as nervous – that’s a given. There is nothing worse than fumbling over your words and being at a loss for basic information because your nerves have gotten to you.  Virtual interviews, the most common type of interview these days, makes it much easier for you to have access to your notes and interview prep docs.  Keep a list of your skills, achievements, projects, software used, courses completed, etc. at your disposal for reference during the interview, and make sure your notes are targeted to the role and interview at hand. Dress the part You want to be taken seriously in your job search and sometimes that means dressing in more corporate attire. Likewise, sometimes that isn’t necessary at all! It depends on the organisation to which you are applying.  Take into account the role and the type of company you’re looking to get into and dress how you think fits the company culture and dress code.  If you feel comfortable in your appearance, this will shine through during the interview. Take constructive criticism kindly Whether it’s a recruiter or a hiring manager you’re dealing with during your job search, chances are they’ll say something about you or your CV that you may not agree with.  If you take constructive criticism as a personal insult rather than well-meaning advice, it will result in a dip in confidence.  However, if you take constructive feedback as a learning opportunity and avoid becoming disheartened, you will feel better equipped for future interview processes.  The more knowledge you have about what appeals to employers, the more confident you will feel going into your interviews, and the better chance you have of snagging your dream job.   

With exam season kicking off this month, it can be an extremely overwhelming and pressured time for students. Dee France, Thrive’s Wellbeing Lead, shares her advice on handling exam stress and anxiety  It is a perfectly normal experience to feel worried and stressed when faced with impending exams or any type of performance situation.  A healthy and ordinary amount of stress can even be good for you, giving you the motivation to push through and keep you focused. However, when worry, self-doubt, fear of failure and the pressure to perform well become too intense, they can interfere negatively with exam preparation and performance.  As feelings of stress push past optimal levels, it can have a devastating effect on our concentration, and our ability to learn, remember and demonstrate what we know.  Causes of exam anxiety  To effectively manage anxiety, it is important to understand why you are feeling this way. There are many variables that may contribute to and relate to these feelings:  Past experience with exams;  Poor preparation, inexperience undergoing exams and unfamiliarity with exam and study techniques;  Poor self-care, such as bad sleep habits, unhealthy eating, lack of exercise and limited relaxation time; Intrusive and unhelpful thinking patterns such as saying to yourself, “I can’t do this” or “I’m going to fail”;  Strong sense of failure; or  Extreme pressure to achieve placed on you by yourself or others. Tips for handling exam anxiety  How you spend your time leading up to your exams can have a huge knock-on effect on your anxiety and stress levels.  Routine  Essential to managing anxiety and stress when faced with exams is creating a study routine early in the year as opposed to haphazardly cramming a year’s worth of learning into a few days.  Design a study schedule and map out how you will spend your days.  Schedule your study time in short, succinct time blocks with a 10-minute break for every hour.  It is important to have a hard stop each evening to allow some time to unwind, and block out a day each week that is revision free. By carving out a comprehensive and realistic schedule, you will focus better, feel in control and be less likely to procrastinate.  Being prepared will help you feel more relaxed and confident and goes a long way to easing stress levels and keeping your nerves in check. Mind and body  When we are busy, other parts of our life can be easily neglected, and we can forget to take care of ourselves.  When it comes to managing anxiety and stress, nourishing your mind and body should not be underestimated.  It is important not to push yourself too hard or overlook your needs.  Regular exercise, eating well and sleeping properly are some of the most effective stress relievers at our disposal and are essential for being at our best physically, mentally and emotionally.  Incorporating fundamental self-care practices into your study routine can ease the pressure of trying to balance your time with other vital activities. Relax  To relieve symptoms of anxiety and stress, practise deep breathing or other relaxation techniques such as progressive muscle relaxation or yoga to help calm the body, alter the body’s response to anxiety and release tension.  In general, relaxation techniques are about refocusing your attention and increasing awareness in the body. It is a good idea to engage in these activities when you are relaxed and practise regularly to reap the benefits.  Ask for help  If you are overwhelmed by upcoming exams, you might find it helpful to share how you are feeling.  At Thrive, we witness a spike in students contacting our services at this time of year regarding exam stress and anxiety, which is one of the most common concerns students are dealing with.  Thrive is the Institute’s dedicated well-being hub, which is freely accessible to all students.  The hub provides a wide range of services tailored to our students' well-being, such as wellness coaching and professional counselling. All services are delivered in complete confidence and are available at any stage of your journey with the Institute.  For more advice or information, check out Thrive’s dedicated wellbeing hub.  Alternatively, you can contact the Wellbeing team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or phone: (+353) 86 0243294

The term emotional intelligence is something we hear a lot of these days and has become a buzzword of sorts in the wellness space. However, it is a critical skill and its importance on our wellbeing, work performance and interpersonal relationships shouldn't be underestimated. Emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to identify and regulate one's emotions and understand the emotions of others. Here, we look at emotional intelligence, its impacts, and how to develop and improve it. Characteristics of emotional intelligence Essentially, emotional intelligence is being aware of our emotions, how they drive behaviour and impact ourselves and others (negatively and positively). Some experts even believe that it is more important in determining life success than IQ. There are certain traits and key signs associated with emotional intelligence. Some include: An ability to identify and describe how you and other people are feeling Self-confidence and acceptance Being able to accept and let go of mistakes and move on quickly Acceptance and embracing of change Feelings of empathy and concern for others Being sensitive and astute to others’ feelings and emotions Being able to manage emotions in difficult situations or within conflict The 5 elements of emotional intelligence According to psychologist Daniel Goleman, who popularised the concept, there are five components to emotional intelligence. Self-awareness Self-awareness is considered the core foundation of emotional intelligence. Strong self-awareness is recognising and understanding your emotions, knowing why you are feeling a certain way and acknowledging their impact on you and others. It is also about knowing your strengths and weaknesses, what your values are and having a strong moral compass. Self-awareness is a key skill in managing our wellbeing too, it helps with decision-making and helps you instinctively make the right choices for you. Conversely, it is suggested those with lower EI exhibit uncontrolled and misunderstood emotions which can heighten their susceptibility to a host of mental health concerns such as stress, anxiety, and depression. Self-regulation Once you have an awareness over your emotions, the next step is being able to manage and regulate your emotions – particularly the negative ones. This is not to be misconstrued as bottling up or hiding your true feelings. Self-regulation is about expressing yourself appropriately. It is one’s ability not to act impulsively or hastily based on emotions, steady self-regulation allows us to reduce how intense our emotions and reactions are. Motivation The next element is the ability to motivate, not only yourself but others too. Motivation is the drive to improve ourselves, set standards and expectations for ourselves and our desire to achieve. This type of motivation goes beyond external rewards though, it is based on a desire to fulfill inner needs and goals. In a work setting, those who are highly motivated tend to be action-oriented, always looking for ways to do things betters, are very committed, and like to take the initiative. Empathy Being empathetic is another key foundation of good emotional intelligence. An important interpersonal skill, empathy is having an understanding of others’ thoughts, feelings and emotions and respecting their point of view. Empathy for others can help foster stronger relationships and is especially vital in the workplace as it is integral to understanding workplace dynamics, influences and how different situations can be interpreted. It can also guide the interactions we have with different people we encounter daily. Social Skills The final element in the emotional intelligence concept is social skills, which is the ability to properly manage others’ emotions, and the ability to connect, interact, influence and work with a range of people effectively. Having strong social skills allows people to build strong and meaningful relationships. In work settings, people can benefit from effective social skills as it allows us to develop strong rapport and trust. In emotional intelligence, social skills include active listening, verbal communication skill, non-verbal communication skills, leadership and persuasiveness. Take a look at our Communicating with impact webinar to learn more about building these key communication skills. Developing our emotional intelligence Emotional intelligence infiltrates all aspects of our lives and is essential for understanding ourselves as well as how successful we are in navigating our social world. Research has found being emotionally intelligent is associated with professional success, financial security, fulfilling and meaningful relationships, increased life satisfaction as well as better overall physical and mental health. While some tend to be more naturally adept, the good news is that these skills can be learned, developed, and strengthen over time. Here are some ways you can strengthen your emotional intelligence. Know yourself – Practice and develop your own self-awareness by becoming more in tune with your emotions and your emotional reactions and responses. Knowing what and how you are feeling can help you identify and process your emotions and strengthen your ability to communicate them in a healthy way. To strengthen your awareness, make a note of when you are experiencing strong feelings, what made you feel that way, and if there were any adverse reactions to those feelings. Communicate and listen – Strong communication skills are essential for developing emotional intelligence and crucial for building strong relationships. Work on communicating openly and be willing to share your own feelings. People communicate verbally and non-verbally, so it is helpful to actively listen and observe reactions.  Active listening involves listening with all senses and paying full attention to the speaker. To develop this skill try nodding along, asking questions or repeating points they have made to show you are listening and understand what the speaker is saying. Empathy – Be mindful of how others may be feeling. While you may not feel that way or have a differing stance in a situation, being empathic means you can imagine yourself in someone else’s position and can acknowledge how and why they may be feeling a certain way. To build empathy, take the other person’s feelings into consideration in a way that is respectful and comforting to the other person. The Thrive Wellbeing Hub provides free practical and emotional support to members, students and family members. We offer a confidential space for you to talk, whether you need a listening ear, wellbeing advice or professional counselling, we are here for you. You can contact the thrive wellbeing team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294

Investing time and effort in networking can help young professionals to develop important relationships and progress faster in their careers. Sonya Boyce explains why Networking is defined, broadly speaking, as: “the action or process of interacting with others to exchange information and develop professional or social contacts”.  When we think of networking as a transactional, one-sided, and artificial relationship, however, it can make us feel slightly uncomfortable about the concept, as though we are somehow using someone for our own professional gain.  Through our work with clients at Mazars and our own experience, we can see that post-COVID-19, working habits have reinforced artificial or contrived perceptions of networking.  Many employees have lost the appetite to network effectively and it can be difficult to mobilise people to re-engage with their existing network and forge new connections in-person.   Just as those connections become even more important in a physically disconnected professional environment, it is key that people invest now in re-establishing and developing their networks in a meaningful way.  Unlocking your network effectively in a post-COVID-19 world could be the key to deeper engagement with colleagues, faster career development and more enjoyable working environments and relationships.  Benefits of networking A strong professional network can be a powerful asset in your career development, playing a critical role in progression, professional opportunities, and making work more enjoyable. Building a network is about relationships with colleagues, bosses, friends, industry colleagues or connections.  Your network isn’t just the relationships you have nurtured over time with friends and colleagues. It also includes more distant relationships and connections with thought leaders, business leaders, and “infrequent contacts”, such as casual acquaintances, and people you have met at conferences.  While not necessarily as close, these connections can be an invaluable part of your network and often possess information or links that can grow your reach and opportunity to learn.  This network, of both close and looser ties, developed over the course of your career, can support greater job mobility, while also being beneficial for employment opportunities, career progression and rewards. Top networking tips Developing a network or networking is not simply about attending conferences and events to “sell” yourself professionally.  Growing a network is about relationship building, developing trust and engaging with the needs and interests of the people you meet and connect with.  To help you enhance this network, especially if you find the process intimidating, here are some useful ideas to consider:  Networking as learning Developing a network is not about gaining connections immediately. Like any relationship, it takes time to develop trust and understanding. Therefore, considering networking as a learning exercise in which we engage is important. Understanding people’s “currencies” Different people are motivated and engaged in different ways. Allan R. Cohen and David L. Bradford, the organisation psychologists known for their work about the power of influencing, wrote extensively on understanding people’s currencies, in order to be able to influence others without authority. Their work identified five primary currencies:  Tasks Position Inspiration Relationship  Personal These five “currencies” can help us identify areas for potential collaboration with other people, develop our networks, and deepen our relationships with others. Networking to get ahead Building your network is just as much about those outside your organisation as it is about your colleagues inside the organisation. One Cornell University study on networking found a correlation between a person’s ability to engage with internal network and their professional opportunities.  In the study, lawyers whose personal views of networking were positive ended with more billable hours and greater choice over the projects they wished to work on, than their colleagues who were less inclined to network.  In essence, those who engage colleagues, make connections and put themselves forward—i.e., those willing and able to develop their personal networks—were more successful in their careers.  Overcoming your fear There is a great opportunity for employers to support and encourage employees to network.  Julia Hobsbawm, author of The Nowhere Office, has, for example, promoted the idea of a Chief Networks Officer (CNO) as a means for organisations to put focus and energy into ensuring that employees are getting the most value out of their connections. Hobsbawm says: “Really, the office is going to be good for two things—social networks and learning. Because people have been out of the office, the last thing you want  to do is to send them to a conference.” Putting networks, and networking, at the C-Suite level would send a clear message to employees and customers alike about the importance of relationships, consistent engagement, chance encounters and stretch projects or developmental opportunities that come from our direct and indirect network.  Sonya Boyce is HR and Organisational Development Consulting Director with Mazars in Ireland You can read this article and more about your career in accountancy in the Accountancy Ireland Career Guide 2023.