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Strong social connections not only impact our mental health but our physical health too. Feeling socially connected is more important than ever, especially after a long period where our social interactions were restricted, and our close circle reduced. Here, Thrive discusses the importance of maintaining and prioritising our relationships for our overall health. We're designed to be social We all know that comforting upbeat feeling of human connection, when you come away from a catch up with friends feeling more positive, happier, and even lighter. As a species, human beings are inherently social creatures.  We are biologically wired to seek out connection from a time where humans hunted in tribes and being part of a group was necessary for survival. Humans need closeness, connection, and a sense of unity to thrive. Social connection is one of our core psychological needs which means it plays an essential role in how safe and satisfied we feel in our lives. Social groups provide us with an important part of our identity, forming who we are and teach us a set of skills and norms that help us to function throughout life. In today’s world though we lead increasingly busy lives trying to juggle and balance work, family, and other commitments. Often our friendships can fall to the wayside. However, strong connection and belonging to something bigger than ourselves are important for our overall health and wellbeing. The benefits of connectedness should not be overlooked, and therefore as a society we should be placing greater emphasis on investing in our friendships. The more connected we feel to other people, the more enriched our life becomes. Friendship and being part of a social group offer a variety of mental health benefits. It increases our feeling of belonging, boosts our sense of purpose, and improves our self-worth and confidence. Connectiveness helps us regulate our emotions, leads to higher levels of empathy and compassion, and can even reduce our stress levels. Studies show that people who feel connected to others report lower rates of anxiety and depression. Not only does good social connection impact our psychological wellbeing, its impacts our physical health as well. Countless studies have shown a lack of human connection and feelings of loneliness are more harmful to our health than obesity, smoking and high blood pressure. By neglecting our need to connect, we put our health at risk. It can even lengthen our lives. Extensive research that looked at the lifestyles of inhabitants within Blue Zone areas, a term given to geographically regions that are home to some of the world’s oldest people, found healthy social networks and high levels of community engagement were commonalities among the differing zones. Our relationships and social groups can alter the course of our life, shape the person we are and can change our perception of ourselves and the world as well as offer an important support system.  So as you can see, social connectedness creates a positive cycle of good social, emotional and physical wellbeing. To forge happy and healthy relationships, it is very important we continually attend to and nurture our connection with the people we consider important in our lives. After an incredibly long period where our social interactions were restricted and ultimately reduced, you may find your sense of connection has diminished. Here are some ways you can improve your social health and reignite your connection with others; Reach out to a friend you may have lost touch with or haven't seen in a while, remember it’s never too late to spark up an old friendship! Join a new club or try out a group activity: focus in on your interests and you’ll be sure to find a club or group full of like-minded people. Volunteer: this can strengthen your sense of purpose, provides an opportunity to meet new people and give back to your community. Invite a co-worker out for lunch: In-office days are great for connecting with your co-workers. Why not reconnect with your favourite work colleague or arrange a work group activity. Spend quality time with family: this could be planning a family BBQ, a movie night on the weekend or a family day out. Be Present: Step away from your devices when you are in company and have an uninterrupted chat. Social isolation is a challenging aspect of life to cope with and is detrimental to your health, please know the Thrive team is here to lend a friendly ear, if and when you need it most.

Burnout is no longer just an HR issue—it’s a leadership imperative. Here Niamh Manning, Marketing Executive for the Thrive Wellbeing Hub, explores how proactive, empathetic management can break the burnout cycle and build resilient, high-performing teams. Burnout has become one of the most pressing issues in the modern workplace, particularly for professional service industries where long hours, high-performance expectations, deadlines and client demands are quite typical. A work culture that prides itself on values of resilience, dedication and hard work can make burnout difficult to spot. While many organisations have HR policies and programs to combat burnout, it is managers who are often the cultural lynchpins and can be an impactful line of defence to break the cycle. It’s their ability to recognise and respond that can determine whether a team thrives or fractures. Managing burnout isn’t just a people issue – it’s a business-critical issue. A burned-out team are more prone to errors, more disengaged, and have low morale, resulting in an increased staff turnover and decreased client satisfaction. The manager toolkit: prevention through proactive leadership Understanding burnout Burnout doesn’t always look dramatic, and many suffer in silence, afraid to speak up fearing it could impact their career growth or be seen as a weakness. It often hides behind professionalism and a strong work ethic, but there are tell-tale signs. Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged or excessive stress, often linked to work but also present in other areas of life. Burnout generally manifests itself in three key dimensions: emotional exhaustion, cynicism and lack of personal accomplishment. This can present in many ways such as reduced attention to detail, irritability or frustration, withdrawing from team collaboration, decline in responsiveness or reliability, or even overworking. As managers get a sense of employees from their daily interactions, they are uniquely positioned to detect behaviour changes and early signs of burnout and make meaningful interventions and changes, but only if they are equipped and empowered to do so. Modelling healthy work habits Leaders set the tone for what is acceptable and expected in the workplace, particularly for younger employees. Modelling healthy boundaries and habits such as logging off at the end of the normal working day, taking breaks and switching off when on annual leave allows employees the space to do the same. However, it is also important to be realistic that some busy periods with high workload volumes are often unavoidable; equally, it is important to know that burnout rarely arises from a busy period – it stems from sustained, unmanaged stress with little or no room for recovery. Psychological safety An integral aspect of high-performing teams and the foundation for creating a culture of wellbeing and productivity, psychological safety in a group involves individuals feeling safe to speak up and share their views and ideas without the fear of negative consequences. Managers can foster this sense of safety by intentionally creating an environment where team members feel safe raising concerns. This can be done in easy and practical ways such as encouraging open dialogue, creating space for feedback, actively listening and modelling vulnerability and empathy. Regular ones-on-one meeting is the perfect way to talk about project updates but also to check in on workloads, stress levels and the employee as a person. Reduce ambiguity, encourage growth Ambiguity and stagnation breeds anxiety. Those with undefined expectations and/or little autonomy in their roles are more susceptible to the effects of burnout. Managers must ensure that employees understand their responsibilities and how they contribute to the wider goals – clear expectations reduce cognitive load and allow employees to focus and prioritise their energies. Managers should encourage autonomy and growth by involving team members in decision-making, providing opportunities for skill development and encouraging ownership of project and duties. When people feel like they’re growing and contributing to something meaningful, they can become more resilient. Recognition and appreciation Reinforcing a sense of value and accomplishment in individuals and teams can help prevent burnout. Managers should regularly acknowledge team members’ efforts and accomplishments. Feeling seen and appreciated can go a long way in encouraging and providing meaning and purpose to team members. Managing burnout when it happens Despite best efforts, however, burnout does occur. When it does, the focus should shift to recovery and retention by allowing employees affected to step back without pressure and temporarily lighten their workload to allow for recovery. Burnout is a leadership issue Managers should not be expected to be therapists, but they are expected to lead and they can be influential agents of change. Despite this pivotal role, many managers are usually not trained to recognise or address burnout. Employers have a responsibility to invest in leadership development that includes emotional intelligence, mental health literacy, and coaching skills. Managers are the conduits of an organisation’s culture. When they are empowered to lead with empathy, clarity, and care, they can transform the workplace from a source of stress into a source of strength. A manager who prevents burnout is not only protecting their team’s health but also preserving the organisation’s long-term resilience and success. If you are experiencing burnout or looking to support someone with burnout, Thrive is the Institute’s dedicated wellbeing hub that can provide advice and support. For additional advice and manager resources, check out CAW’s Wellbeing Toolkit for managers in the accountancy profession.

Summer is in full bloom - schools closed, the days warmer and longer and schedules slow down - making it the perfect time to foster good wellbeing practices. Here, Chartered Accountants Ireland’s Intern, Sophie King, outlines how you can focus on wellbeing this summer.  We all know taking care of ourselves is important, but between work, family and life, it’s not that easy. Wellbeing and self-care can seem like buzzwords, just thrown around to make things more appealing, but it is so important to look after ourselves and our mental health. Self-care is an essential aspect of maintaining overall wellbeing. By prioritising self-care, we can improve our mental and physical health, increase resilience, and enhance our quality of life. Check out the techniques below that could be your new favourite! Relaxation techniques Relaxation techniques are an effective way to reduce stress and anxiety. Deep breathing exercises and mindfulness meditation can help calm the mind and body. Progressive muscle relaxation is a relaxation method that is not often talked about, it is a technique that involves systematically tensing and then releasing different muscle groups in the body to promote relaxation. This method helps individuals become more aware of the difference between muscle tension and relaxation, ultimately reducing overall stress and anxiety. Have a go at this technique, all you have to do is tense and then slowly release each muscle group in your body, starting from your toes and working up to your head. These techniques can be practiced anywhere, at any time, making them a convenient addition to your daily routine. By incorporating relaxation techniques into your daily life, you can better manage stress and improve your overall wellbeing. Hobbies and Interests Engaging in hobbies and interests can bring a sense of purpose and enjoyment to your life. Whether it's painting, playing music, or gardening, making time for activities you love can help reduce stress and increase feelings of happiness. It can be easy to let ourselves get overwhelmed by work and life, but engaging in something that interests you can distract you from these stresses and recentre the mind. Don’t be discouraged if you try a new hobby and it does not go your way at first, perseverance is key! Learning new skills or improving your hobbies can grow your confidence and self-esteem. Hobbies and interests can also provide opportunities for social connection and personal growth, further enhancing your overall wellbeing. Unwinding with a Relaxing Bedtime Routine A consistent bedtime routine can help signal to your body that it's time to sleep, improving the quality of your rest. Activities like reading, taking a warm bath, or practicing gentle stretches can help calm your mind and body, preparing you for a restful night's sleep. By prioritising a relaxing bedtime routine, you can improve your sleep hygiene and wake up feeling refreshed and revitalized, because no one can be positive when they are tired, no matter how much coffee they consume. The Benefits of Gratitude Journaling Gratitude journaling is a powerful tool for cultivating a positive mindset. By reflecting on the things you are grateful for each day, you can shift your focus away from stress and anxiety and towards the good things in your life. This practice can help increase feelings of happiness and wellbeing and can even improve your relationships with others. To use it effectively, write down three things you are grateful for each day. This helps shift focus to positive aspects of your life. The Kindness Connection Engaging in acts of kindness can have a profound impact on both the giver and the receiver. Whether it's volunteering, donating to a good cause, or simply offering a kind word to someone in need, acts of kindness can increase feelings of empathy and compassion. Engaging in acts of kindness can release endorphins or “feel good hormones,” additionally, practising acts of kindness can increase your feelings of compassion and understanding towards others. By incorporating acts of kindness into your daily life, you can cultivate a sense of connection and community, further enhancing your overall wellbeing. It can be hard to get into this mindset, so start small, open the door for someone, or hold the elevator. The trick is to be consistent; in doing so you make it a habit, and it becomes part of your daily routine. When you get in the mindset, you will automatically look for opportunities to help others, whether it’s at work or at home. So, pay attention to the impact your kindness has on others and on yourself, it might just make your day. Prioritise your wellbeing By incorporating these self-care practices into your daily life, you can take a proactive approach to nurturing your mind, body, and soul. Whether it's relaxation techniques, hobbies and interests, a relaxing bedtime routine, gratitude journaling, or acts of kindness, there are countless ways to prioritise your wellbeing. By making self-care a priority, you can improve your overall quality of life and cultivate a deeper sense of happiness and fulfilment. This article was written by the Institute's DCU Intern, Sophie King, on behalf of Thrive. Sophie is currently studying Communications in DCU. In partnership with DCU's Access to the Workplace programme, the Institute hosted Sophie as part of its professional summer internship placements.  For more advice or information, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie  or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294. 

"I look back on her teenage years as being the loveliest stage of her childhood" said no parent, ever. Living with teenagers can be stressful, exhausting, sometimes fulfilling and certainly unpredictable. Here’s some thoughts on how to help your child transition to a happy and healthy young adult, whilst keeping your own professional and personal life on track. Remember you are the expert on what’s right for you and your family, these are only ideas. Be a role model for a happy, healthy and meaningful life Teenagers don’t appear to listen to what we say, but they certainly copy what we do. Pay attention to your own diet, exercise, sleeping habits, alcohol consumption, over-work and other life style choices. That includes letting them observe you having fun and making time for things you enjoy, as well as working and being a parent. It’s not selfish to have outside interests and let your children see that life is for living. Don’t pretend to be a clean-living paragon when you are not. It’s much better for them to see you balance a few days of healthier living to make up for a period of excess, whether through work or play. That’s real life. Turn off the digital devices Teenagers are notoriously critical of their parents so don’t make it easy for them to call you out on double-standards. You can’t expect them to make conversation with you if you are checking your own emails at the dinner table. Try to make some family rules about screen time and stick to them Talk, don’t bottle up your emotions It’s normal to feel frustrated, overwhelmed, and tired from time to time. It’s also normal to feel frustrated or angry with your teenager sometimes too. Reach out to people who will support you. At work, advice and feedback is usually helpful. In our personal lives, you don’t necessarily need advice, just someone to listen to you non-judgementally. It’s ok for your teenagers to see that you can feel vulnerable or overwhelmed from time to time. They will learn how to deal with stressful situations from observing how you cope. Avoid comparisons Other people’s children may appear to be coping much better than yours, and other parents appear to be managing their life and career better also. That may be true, or it may not be. Surround yourself with a supportive network and don’t judge your own family life or other people. Life is a marathon not a sprint. If your children are facing difficulties now, then they will learn from their mistakes and build resilience. Don’t beat yourself or them up for not being perfect. You may even have to relax your high standards – maybe one relaxed, home-cooked meal with all the family round the table each week is enough to aim for? Create an easy space to talk As teens become increasingly independent they often spend more time with their friends than their family. This can feel like a rejection. Try and keep the lines of communication open. It is essential to invest your energy in maintaining a good relationship, even when they have trouble communicating. Talk to them about what you are up to, and perhaps they’ll reciprocate. Find the best time to get them to open up. Many parents say that their teens talk to them when they are taxi-ing them around. If your children are more relaxed in the early evening, then grab a cup of tea and chat to them when you get home, rather than rushing to do chores or doing work. Ditch the guilt Some days you simply have to put your professional life first to cope with the demands facing you. That’s modern life and that’s how you pay the bills. Don’t beat yourself up about it. They’ll respect you for your achievements, even if they don’t show it right now. No one says it is easy to balance work and family life. Smaller children are tiring but they are easier to control than stroppy teenagers. It’s hard for many of us to let go, particularly when we are usually in the driving seat in our personal and professional lives. Pick your battles carefully. Like all childhood phases, this won’t last for ever. Thrive is the Institute's dedicated wellbeing hub that offers emotional support and advice. Looking for more parenting advice, check out our “Back to School”- Managing the Year Ahead webinar. Written by: Zena Everett, Executive Coach. Article reproduced with the kind permission of CABA, the organisation providing lifelong support to ICAEW members, ACA students and their close family around the world.

Maintaining and achieving good health is imperative for our physical and mental wellbeing. However, there are barriers that can get in the way of keeping our body and mind healthy, especially for men. Therefore, it is important to recognise what prevents or deters men from seeking help and support when it comes to their health. Here, the Thrive Wellbeing Hub explores these barriers and shares simple but effective steps to keeping healthy both physically and mentally. Knowledge & Awareness Although men are not a homogenous group, there are similarities when it comes to awareness and knowledge of health issues compared to females. Men are prone to engage in more unhealthy habits compared to females. Females on average have a higher life expectancy, males tend to have higher rates of obesity, a greater proportion of males smoke, and there is higher participation in binge drinking and drug use. Poor lifestyles are responsible for a large proportion of chronic diseases. The four main causes of death among males in Ireland are cancer, circulatory system diseases, respiratory system diseases, and external causes of injury and poisoning. It is suggested that men tend to be less informed about the risk factors, causation and symptoms of poor health and certain diseases. This lack of knowledge and awareness may prevent men from seeking help as they are simply unaware of the symptoms surrounding certain illnesses. Therefore, it is important for us to educate ourselves on the signs and symptoms of poor health. Perception As outlined above, men tend to adopt unhealthier behaviours and are at greater risk for all leading causes of death. However, men are less likely to consult or visit a health professional compared to women and perception is a significant barrier to males engaging in health-seeking behaviours. This is where the severity of a health concern is underestimated or brushed off as nothing serious. Late presentation to health services is a cause for concern and can lead to health issues worsening or becoming untreatable. It's important to take action as soon as you notice something isn't quite right. Stigma Gender roles and the construct of masculinity have been cited as barriers to men looking after their health, especially when it comes to mental health. Perceptions associated with masculinity can result in men being more reluctant to speak out on mental health issues or engage in help-seeking behaviour for fear of being seen as weak or not embodying the traditional and frankly outdated attributes of what is considered masculine. This stigma allows for men’s mental health needs to often fly under the radar. This is evident in the high suicide rates of males in Ireland. In 2023, there were 232 male deaths by suicide, accounting for three out of every four suicide deaths in Ireland (CSO).  Thankfully, this ideology is shifting, and men’s attitudes and awareness of mental health are changing. Being honest and open with yourself about how you are feeling and communicating this to loved ones or a mental health professional is so important. Proactive Steps Men and those who support them have an active role to play in encouraging and supporting men to take small steps to be proactive in both their physical and mental health. Let’s challenge ourselves to take action and incorporate small changes to help improve our overall health: Eat well Exercise and spend time outdoors Reduce alcohol intake Know the signs of poor mental health, suicidal ideations, and other health conditions Schedule a medical, arrange a blood test and engage in screening services and programmes Talk and Listen – Confide in a loved one or someone impartial, ask if everything is okay, listen and help empower the men in our lives to take action If you are struggling with your mental or emotional wellbeing, Thrive can help you on your journey to better health. For wellbeing advice, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294.

Social anxiety - sometimes known as social phobia - is a type of anxiety that causes intense, overwhelming and persistent fear or anxiety surrounding social settings and situations. Social anxiety is more than shyness, it can be extremely distressing and have a huge impact on our quality of life.  It can affect our every day and impact our relationships, performance at work or school, and most of all our self-confidence. Many people worry about social situations from time to time but a person with social anxiety will worry about and catastrophise social situations before, during and after them. Some may have limited or selective social anxiety – they can accomplish activities or particular tasks and go about their day but will experience a certain amount of fear or anxiety when they do, causing a huge emotional toll at times. Some may avoid places or situations that could cause distress due to concerns of being scrutinized, judged or being embarrassed by their actions. For others with severe social anxiety, it can be so intense that they will avoid all social situations and interactions like asking a question in a meeting, taking public transport or using other shared public facilities or eating in public.  Symptoms of Social Anxiety You may have social anxiety if you engage or experience the following: Intense worry or dread about a social situation or activities such as meeting strangers, starting or holding conversations, engaging in group conversations, speaking on the phone, working or shopping Avoid social situations or places where there are other people or try to blend into the background Feel self-conscious or fear doing something embarrassing Missing work or school due to anxiety Concerned others will notice their nervousness or anxiousness Consuming alcohol or other substances to help face social settings For a person with social anxiety, social situations may lead to or cause a whole host of reactions: Blushing, sweating, trembling, dry mouth or difficulty speaking Have a rapid heart rate, dizziness or feeling lightheaded Feel as if their mind goes blank or feel nauseous Difficulty making or maintaining eye control, rigid body posture Overcoming Social Anxiety Social anxiety is difficult to deal with and you should consider talking to your GP or a mental health professional for solutions and tactics to overcoming your anxiety.  Self-help is not a cure but it can help reduce your anxiety and symptoms. It might be a useful first step before trying other treatments.   Understand your anxiety If you suspect you or a loved one are dealing with social anxiety, seek out information to gain a better understanding of it. Research the signs and behaviour, learn about treatment options and seek out research. Compare which social situations you find the most difficult and make you the most anxious. Are there specific situation you struggle with more? Think about how you act in these situations – these reflections and awareness will give you a clearer picture of the specific areas and triggers you may have or why particular social environments induce anxiety. Exposure A core element of cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) when dealing with anxiety is exposure therapy. This involves seeking out and engaging in activities where you feel anxious or activities that you avoid to ease discomfort. This can be tough and very daunting at first so best to start with small goals and targets and gradually expose yourself to more difficult activities and ones you fear most. As you begin to understand your triggers and situations that cause anxiety, you can create a list of situations that make you feel anxious and categorise them from a little anxiety inducing to terrifying. Begin to make your way down the list as your confidence builds. Examples of this could be saying hello to a stranger, asking a question or making a comment in a meeting to presenting in a room full of people. In the moment If you find yourself in a social setting or situation that is making you feel anxious, there are some simple coping techniques you could use to combat in-the-moment anxiety. Use your breath and engage in some simple breathing exercises as this helps calm the parasympathetic nervous system and instantly makes you feel more relaxed. It also helps you concentrate on the present moment and takes you away from the anxious or fearful thoughts you may be having. A simple one to remember is the 5-5-5 breath.  Inhale for 5 seconds, hold for 5 and breathe out for 5. Another coping technique for anxiety is the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method which activates your senses and brings you back to the present moment. Acknowledge 5 things you see Acknowledge 4 things you can touch Acknowledge 3 things you can hear Acknowledge 2 things you can smell Acknowledge 1 thing you can taste If you feel as if your anxiety is getting the best of you and interfering with your quality of life, the Thrive Wellbeing Hub is here for you. We have a range of supports available to you as a member or student of the Institute. Learn more about how Thrive can help: https://www.charteredaccountants.ie/thrive-wellbeing-hub/how-we-help