We all experience periods in life that contribute to increased stress levels and anxiousness. Be it exams, a work deadline looming, moments of uncertainty, crisis, or big life events.  However, it is how we cope through life’s ups and downs that is important. Maintaining good wellbeing is a crucial aspect of living that can help us endure and cope with periods of stress instead of floundering or struggling to cope effectively. And breathe… In moments of stress or anxiety our breathing patterns change.  You might notice your breath is shallow, out of sync or you might find yourself holding in your breath at times. This creates a vicious cycle as out of control breathing is caused by stress but also causes stress, prolonging the symptoms and making them worse.  Whereas deep, controlled breathing has the opposite effect. A slow and steady inhalation and exhalation signals the parasympathetic nervous system to calm the body down. As our breathing is an automatic, unconscious, habitual function of the body, we might not even notice how we are breathing. Therefore, it is important to tune into your breath.  There are countless breathing techniques which helps relax the body and mind, but the general aim is to shift from quick, shallow upper torso breathing to a slow, deep abdominal breath.  Take a minute to focus on your breathing and its pattern. Then place your hand on your stomach and strive to feel the abdomen expand and contract as you breathe in and out. Pay attention to how you feel after engaging in this breathing technique, you are sure to feel calmer.  Food for thought  We all know the tendency to comfort eat when feeling stressed or emotional and it can be tempting to seek out sugary, high calorie, high fat foods for instant gratification or out of sheer convenience. This response however only works in the very short term and again can aggravate our stress levels.  Stress and anxiousness can create digestive and gut issues. Simple things like drinking more water to stay hydrated, reducing your caffeine intake and eating three balanced meals each day can help. Stress can leave your energy reserves depleted and low on essential vitamins and minerals.  Consume plenty of wholesome food that is rich in good nutrients.  Foods high in Vitamin C are understood to reduce anxiety levels while green leafy vegetables and nuts are high in magnesium which can regulate our stress hormones.  Rest and digest  For our brain to function optimally it needs rest and this responsibility falls to the parasympathetic nervous system, also known as the rest and digest system. The parasympathetic nervous system slows our stress response by releasing hormones that relax the mind and body and is where digestion, detoxifying and healing occur.  To activate the rest and digest system, there is no other option but to relax. For some that is mediation, practising yoga or indulging in some self-care.  Self-care has become a popular notion in recent years, but it is not all bubble baths and face masks. Forms of self-care can be spending time in nature, exercising, reading, journaling, colouring, tidying your surrounds or spending time with loved ones. Simply put, self-care practises are tools to help ease our response to stress and enhance our body and mind’s ability to rest, reflect and replenish.  It is important to also take regular breaks throughout the day, a brief pause in momentum allows the brain space to think and process information and brings clarity that helps you feel in control and ultimately reduce stress.  Get some ZZZs The power of sleep to regulate our stress levels should not be underestimated. Stress and anxiety can lead to sleeping problems and a lack of sleep can affect your general wellbeing – again another vicious cycle we can find ourselves in.  When we are not getting enough sleep, it is more difficult to regulate our mood, emotions, and reactions, can affect our concentration, memory and even lead to poor decision making. It’s not always possible to get as much sleep as we would like, generally we should be aiming for at least 5 hours of sleep a night but ideally, we should aim for 7-8 hours. To feel well rested, it is important we develop habits and routines that aid our ability to drift off.  Create a healthy sleep routine by going to bed and getting up at the same time every day, avoid lie ins and naps that can then disrupt our natural sleep cycle.  Start your own personal wind down by creating a night-time routine that you then begin to associate with sleep. It can be as simple as brushing your teeth and washing your face, developing a night-time skincare routine, reading a book or stretching.    This is one of the harder habits to develop but try to limit your use of technology an hour before bed. Our devices keep us awake and stimulate the brain through the activity itself but also from the blue light emitted from the screen. Most phones these days have a blue light filter and can be scheduled to switch on at a certain time.  Thrive is the Institute’s dedicated wellbeing hub which provides emotional and practical support to our members, students and their family members for life. Should you find yourself in a difficult situation, the team at Thrive can help steer you through life’s ups and downs. Talk to us today on mobile: (353) 86 024 3294 or email us.

Swapping self-criticism for self-compassion can help us to become more resilient, overcome difficult situations and boost our mental health. Dee France, Thrive’s Wellbeing Lead, explains why. “You are your own worst critic” is a popular phrase for a reason and will resonate with many of us. Our inner critic can be very harsh, and while we shouldn’t outright ignore it, we also shouldn’t give it more attention than it deserves. In fact, it could be argued that a healthy dose of self-doubt and criticism is necessary as it allows us to monitor our behaviour and check ourselves. However, overwhelming negative self-talk and being too critical of oneself can be damaging and detrimental to how we live our daily lives, not to mention the devastating impact it can have on our mental health. This is where a level of self-compassion is needed. Humans are collectively compassionate beings, showing a great deal of understanding and kindness to others, but we aren’t always great at being kind to ourselves. Where self-criticism asks, “am I good enough?” self-compassion asks, “what’s good for me?” Instead of dwelling on mistakes, past failures and judging and criticising yourself for various imperfections or shortcomings, self-compassion means you are understanding and supportive of yourself. How do we develop self-compassion? Like any skill, developing a sense of self-compassion requires time, practice and patience. As a leading researcher in self-compassion, Doctor Kristin Neff theorises that there are three core fundamentals to self-compassion. Mindful awareness This involves being aware of your thoughts and emotions and taking a balanced and mindful approach to both, neither suppressing nor exaggerating, but simply acknowledging your feelings without judgment. Self-kindness This involves caring for yourself the way you would a friend or family member going through a difficult time. When we are faced with challenging situations or have feelings of inadequacy, rather than beating ourselves up, we are instead supportive and encouraging of ourselves. Self-kindness gives us the security and perspective to put ourselves in a better frame of mind to cope with any challenges we may experience. Common humanity Self-compassion is rooted in common humanity. When we make a mistake, it is common to think we are the only person in the world who is flawed. Common humanity is recognising that everyone is flawed, vulnerable and imperfect. It is important to acknowledge that we all make mistakes and have our own insecurities. Nobody is perfect and this is something that connects, rather than separates, us. Self-compassion and wellbeing Self-compassion can be thought of as being self-indulgent or feeling sorry for ourselves, but developing the ability to cope and manage our difficulties is good for our emotional wellbeing. Research studies show that those who are more self-compassionate benefit from better mental and physical health. Further, people with higher levels of self-compassion tend to be more resilient, have a less physical response to stressors and spend less time dwelling on situations after they have happened. Self-compassion involves recognising strengths and achievements, which, in turn, boosts our self-confidence and self-belief. A study by the Universities of Exeter and Oxford found that self-compassion can immediately calm your heart rate and lessen stress responses. Study participants also demonstrated a general state of relaxation and security and reported a stronger sense of connection to other people. Exercising self-compassion makes you more likely to: engage in healthy behaviours such as exercise, eating better and better sleeping patterns; be less fearful of making mistakes, rejection or change; display higher levels of emotional intelligence, happiness and optimism; handle and cope with adversity and difficulties better; and demonstrate healthier boundaries in both your professional and personal life. Practising self-compassion There is a vast array of ways we can cultivate self-compassion. To get started, there are plenty of helpful resources, tools, exercises and templates available online. Below are a few ways you can start showing yourself a little more kindness and understanding: Practice mindfulness and self-reflection: learn to observe and evaluate your thoughts; activities such as journalling and meditation can aid this. This encourages you to be curious and self-aware, understanding that your thoughts and assumptions are just that – they are not facts. Reward and celebrate: celebrate your successes and achievements. Practice gratitude and celebrate moments of positivity and kindness. Keep a list of personal strengths to review in moments of self-doubt. Take a break: time away from your day-to-day routine and a change of scenery can help you keep things in perspective. Strengthen your connections: kindness is contagious! Showing love and understanding to the people around you means you are more likely to show yourself the same compassion. Do things you enjoy: spending time on our passions, hobbies and interests is good for the soul and brings a sense of satisfaction and achievement. Thrive is the Institute’s dedicated wellbeing hub that offers confidential wellbeing support to students and members. For more advice or information, check out Thrive’s Wellbeing Hub. Alternatively, you can contact the team by email at thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or phone at (+353) 86 024 3294.

The Five Ways to Wellbeing was developed by the New Economics Foundation in 2008, where their project collated research from around the world on proven actions that can help us feel good. Wellbeing is a term that has gained popularity in recent years but in its simplest form it is a state of being comfortable, healthy, or happy. In a broader sense, it’s how satisfied you are with life, your sense of purpose, and how in control you feel. The framework is used globally in various ways to build more awareness on our collective wellbeing and help people take action to improve it. Each action can make a positive impact in our lives and most of us will engage with these activities without being aware of it. To get the most from the five steps, it is important to incorporate all of them on a daily basis. Why not try the five today? Connect Social connection is extremely important for our wellbeing. We are social animals, and our need for connection can help us feel happier, increase our feelings of security and safety and gives us a greater sense of belonging and purpose. Make time to connect with others each day. Nurture and invest in your relationships with loved ones.  This could be talking to someone rather than sending an email, speaking to someone new - possibly chatting to another in your local coffee shop or supermarket or taking time out to ask a loved one how they are truly feeling. Be Active Look for ways to be active each day. This doesn’t mean spending hours in the gym though; find an activity you can enjoy and try to incorporate it into your everyday life. Physical activity is intrinsically linked with lower rates of depression and anxiety. Why not take the stairs rather than the lift, go for a walk at lunch, or explore your local park – little changes can reap huge rewards. Take Notice Simply put, be in the moment. Being aware of the now can help you feel calmer and reduce stress. Take stock of what is around you and paying attention to the present – to your own thoughts, feelings and to the world around you. Keep Learning Be curious and ever learning! Continuing to learn throughout life can help boost our self-confidence and self-esteem. As adults, we can be time poor with other day-to-day responsibilities but simple activities such as learning a new recipe, getting around to that DIY project, doing a puzzle or setting yourself a new challenge can help achieve a higher level of wellbeing. Give Giving to others makes us feel good. When we give or help others, it activates parts of the brain associated with trust, social connection and pleasure. It provides a sense of meaning, improves our life satisfaction and mood, and can even reduce stress. Giving up your time to others can also help strengthen relationships or build new ones. Try to complete a small act of kindness today. Research into actions for improving happiness has shown that committing an act of kindness once a week over a six-week period is associated with an increase in wellbeing. And there you have it, the five ways to wellbeing! If you are struggling with your mental or emotional wellbeing, Thrive can help you on your journey to better emotional health. For wellbeing advice, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294.

Bad days happen. We all have them, those days when we feel a bit down or low and nothing seems to go our way. It’s normal to have a few down days every now and then but you don’t have to resign yourself to a bad day or let a bad mood dominate you. Here the Thrive wellbeing team shares some quick strategies for an instant lift in mood and help put a smile on your face.  Understand and observe your mood To manage our mood, we need to observe them and understand why we are feeling that way. If you are having a bad day, take note of your feelings – are you feeling sad, angry, frustrated?  Reflect on what happened that led you to feel like this and whether the day got worse or better. Observe where your mood is steering you and tell yourself that you can master and control your mood. Music Listening to music can have a major impact on how you are feeling. Research shows that music can influence our emotions as it can boost the production of dopamine and serotonin in the brain, which evokes feelings of happiness, relaxes the mind and body, and relieves stress. There are countless mood-boosting playlists on Spotify if you are looking for inspiration. Move Endorphins trigger a positive feeling in the body which helps instantly boost your mood. So, get those endorphins pumping by engaging in some movement – dance, shake your body, do some jumping jacks, or get outside for a walk. Any movement will help lift your mood and calm you down. Smile It sounds cheesy but it is amazing what smiling can do. Research has indicated that the simple act of smiling activates mood-boosting hormones and can literally ‘trick’ your brain into a state of happiness and improve your positivity. It can even boost your immune system. This applies to genuine and not-so-genuine smiles, so fake it ‘til you make it!  Release the emotions Suppressing or holding onto your emotions can lead to further negative thinking, it can even lead to physical stress on the body. So, it is always best to let it out. If you feel sad, allow yourself to cry. Feeling angry, scream. Feeling overwhelmed, mediate. Whatever outlet you choose, it is important to release the emotion and let go of the negative energy. Do something new Routine is good for us but switching it up from time to time and adding something that is out of the norm for us can really brighten up a day. Studies suggest that those who engage in a variety of experiences are more likely to retain positive emotions. Try a different coffee order, add a pastry with it, take a different route home, go to the cinema or even wear something you wouldn’t normally wear. Anything that challenges our routine a little will give you a lift. Do something nice for someone else A quick good deed or small act of kindness can go a long way to helping us feel more positive. Taking the focus away from yourself and doing something nice for someone else can make your feel good and instantly boost your happiness. Good Company Having a conversation with a friend or loved one is another great way to combat a low mood. Vent if you need to, as sharing can make you feel better and take the weight out of your feelings. A fun, light-hearted conversation will help put a smile on your and take your mind away from whatever is causing a low mood. If you find a low mood is persistent and impacting your day-to-day, you may consider seeking support. The Thrive Wellbeing Hub offers confidential wellbeing support such as a one-to-one listening service, wellbeing coaching, and professional counselling.   We also host a wealth of insightful and practical wellbeing webinars that may help you in your efforts, you can visit our Help & Guides page to view. For more advice, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie  or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294.

Insomnia is a sleep disorder in which you have trouble falling and/or staying asleep. It is suggested that 42% of Irish adults have a mental health disorder with insomnia cited as the most common disorder experienced by adults in Ireland at 15%. Here, the Thrive wellbeing team explains insomnia, the symptoms, causes and tips to help you get a better night's sleep. Insomnia means you have problematic sleep habits. How much sleep an individual needs varies from person to person, but on average adults need 7-9 hours of sleep per night. If you are experiencing constant tiredness throughout the day, you are probably not getting enough sleep. Symptoms Insomnia can affect people on a short-term basis (less than 3 months). Insomnia that lasts 3 months or longer is classified as long-term insomnia. Insomnia symptoms may include: Difficult falling asleep A pattern of interrupted or broken sleep that doesn’t refresh you Waking too early Daytime tiredness and sleepiness Find it hard to nap during the day even though you're tired Difficulty paying attention, concentrating, or focusing on tasks Increased forgetfulness Irritability, depression, or anxiety What causes insomnia? Insomnia can be the primary problem but usually is a result of other factors that disrupt sleep. Therefore, treating the underlying causes can help improve insomnia symptoms. Common causes of insomnia include: Stress Irregular sleep schedule or poor sleeping habits Mental health disorders such as anxiety or depression Physical illness or chronic pain Travel or work schedules Lifestyle choices e.g., heavy reliance on stimulants such as alcohol, caffeine, or nicotine Age and life stage- older adults and those going through menopause have a higher susceptibility to chronic insomnia A combination of these factors can trigger or exacerbate insomnia, while poor sleep can initiate or worsen other health conditions, creating a vicious and complex cause and effect situation. Risk factors   During sleep, the body heals and restores itself, our brain forges new pathways and connections that helps with memory retention.  This is the time our bodies needs to carry out important functions to ensure we are running smoothly and effectively. When we continually don’t get enough sleep, it can have serious health effects over time. Science has linked poor sleep and insomnia to a multitude of health problems. A lack of sleep over time can increase the chances of developing a number of conditions such as a weakened immune system, obesity, high blood pressure, stroke, heart disease among other issues such as increased risk of accidents and errors, poor memory and performance and difficulty regulating our emotions. How you can treat insomnia yourself It is not always possible to prevent insomnia, but good sleep habits can help improve it and promote sound sleep. When trying to get your sleep cycle on track, the first place to start with is where you sleep. Make sure your room is dark and quiet, not to cold or warm and make sure your mattress, pillows and covers are comfortable. Create a good bedtime routine that helps you relax and get in the mood for sleep. Relax at least 1 hour before bed and only go to bed when you feel tired, limiting the use of technology and bright lights can help too. Try to maintain roughly the same schedule for sleeping, you should aim to go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, even on the weekends. Exercise regularly and get some sunlight most days. Sun exposure helps regulate the body’s internal body clock and promotes sleep at night, while exercise influences sleep efficiency on both a physical and mental level. Insomnia can seriously affect your mental and emotional health along with physical wellbeing. If your sleep is impacting your day-to-day life and a change in sleeping habits haven’t work, you should consult your GP. Thrive can also help you on your journey to better sleep. For advice, wellness coaching or counselling, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294

As part of the CAW's Global Wellbeing Taskforce, Thrive is delighted to introduce our revamped wellbeing toolkit for managers.  At Chartered Accountants Worldwide, we acknowledge the profound impact of mental health on work performance, relationships, and the overall quality of life. We delve into the importance of fostering employee wellbeing in our fast-paced industry. Depression and anxiety, prevalent mental health conditions, exert a significant economic toll, amounting to US$ 1 trillion each year on the global economy. Download CAW's Wellbeing Toolkit for managers in the accountancy profession. The Gallup Global Employee Survey paints a concerning picture, revealing that less than a quarter of the world's employees feel they are thriving at work, underscoring the urgency to address this growing challenge. The McKinsey Health Institute's extensive survey across 15 countries and 15,000 employees unearths a stark reality - 59% of the workforce grapples with mental health challenges, highlighting the imperative for employers to intervene and support their teams. This holds true for the Chartered Accountancy profession as well, where stress and burnout are issues, affecting over half of Chartered Accountants. Managers within this industry play a pivotal role in shaping a conducive work environment that fosters mental, emotional, and physical health. Recognising the direct link between comprehensive support and heightened engagement and productivity, it becomes both an ethical and strategic responsibility to manage wellbeing effectively. The Chartered Accountants Worldwide global wellbeing taskforce acknowledges this imperative and is proud to introduce our revamped wellbeing toolkit for managers. This toolkit stands as a comprehensive guide, arming managers with crucial insights, strategies, and best practices to cultivate a thriving and dynamic team. Above all, it emphasises the critical need to build resilience and purpose within the workplace, contributing to a more productive, rewarding, and compassionate work environment. Together, let's pave the way towards a brighter future for the Chartered Accountancy profession by prioritising mental health and fostering a culture of holistic wellbeing. Download CAW's Wellbeing Toolkit for managers in the accountancy profession.