Retirement

This week marks Men’s Health Week (MHW) which presents an important opportunity to encourage men to be more open about their mental and physical health and seek support where necessary. For 2022, the theme is 'MISSION: isPOSSIBLE' and the message to everyone is ‘The Action Starts with You’. However, there are barriers that can get in the way of keeping our body and mind healthy, especially for men. It is important to recognise what prevents men from seeking help and support when it comes to their health. To mark MHW, the Thrive Wellbeing Hub explores these barriers and shares simple but effective steps to keeping healthy both physically and mentally. Knowledge & Awareness Although men are not a homogenous group, there are similarities when it comes to awareness and knowledge of health issues compared to females. Men are prone to engage in more unhealthy habits compared to females. Females have a higher life expectancy than males, males tend to have higher rates of obesity, a greater proportion of males smoke, and there is higher participation in binge drinking and drug use. Poor lifestyles are responsible for a large proportion of chronic diseases. The four main causes of death among males in Ireland are cancer, circulatory system diseases, respiratory system diseases, and external causes of injury and poisoning. It is suggested that men tend to be less informed about the risk factors, causation and symptoms of poor health and certain diseases. This lack of knowledge and awareness may prevent men from seeking help as they are simply unaware of the symptoms surrounding certain illnesses. Therefore, it is important for us to educate ourselves on the signs and symptoms of poor health. Perception As outlined above, men tend to adopt unhealthier behaviours and are at greater risk for all leading causes of death. However, men are less likely to consult or visit a health professional compared to women and perception is a significant barrier to males engaging in health-seeking behaviours. This is where the severity of a health concern is underestimated or brushed off as nothing serious. Late presentation to health services is a cause for concern and can lead to health issues worsening or becoming untreatable. It's important to take action as soon as you notice something isn't quite right. Stigma Gender roles and the construct of masculinity have been cited as a barrier to men looking after their health, especially when it comes to mental health. These views associated with masculinity can result in men being more reluctant to speak out on mental health issues or engage in help-seeking behaviour for fear of being seen as weak or not embodying the traditional and frankly outdated attributes of what is considered masculine. This stigma allows for men’s mental health needs to often fly under the radar. This is evident in the high suicide rates of males in Ireland. Of the 390 people who died by suicide in 2019, 300 of them were male. Thankfully, this ideology is shifting, and men’s attitudes and awareness of mental health are changing. Being honest and open with yourself about how you are feeling and communicating this to loved ones or a mental health professional is so important. Proactive Steps Men and those who support them have an active role to play in encouraging and supporting men to take small steps to be proactive in both their physical and mental health. With this year, MHW message being ‘the action starts with you’, let’s challenge ourselves to take action and incorporate small changes to help improve our overall health: Eat well Exercise and spend time outdoors Reduce alcohol intake Know the signs of poor mental health, suicidal ideations, and other health conditions Schedule a medical, arrange a blood test and engage in screening services and programmes Talk and Listen – Confide in a loved one or someone impartial, ask if everything is okay, listen and help empower the men in our lives to take action If you are struggling with your mental or emotional wellbeing, Thrive can help you on your journey to better health. For wellbeing advice, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294.

A life that is full of happiness, vibrancy, and vitality is something we all hope for and strive to achieve. But what does a life of vitality actually entail? Vitality is defined as the state of being strong and active, being full of life and energy. It is the exuberance of physical, mental, and emotional strength. It is about the feeling of aliveness- living life to the fullest and finding zest in every situation. Ahead of Thrive’s upcoming wellness webinar, Living with Vitality: The Science of Self-Care, the wellbeing team shares its tips for living a life full of vitality. Our vitality for life is of critical importance and is something that correlates with good wellbeing and is a contributor to our overall happiness and wellness. Increased vitality can help boost our productivity, help build better coping skills and enhance our ability to manage and navigate our emotions. Self-care for improved vitality Self-care may seem like a trendy term these days, but when you invest in and make time for yourself, it can translate into feeling better about yourself. Self-care is often misunderstood but it essentially means checking in with yourself physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Self-care looks different to everyone. It is important to focus and identify what activities are fulfilling to you and make you feel good. It can also help ignite a spark and passion to take care of other aspects of our lives. This time for reflection and self-care can increase your propensity for a life of vitality. The need for self-compassion Self-compassion is an essential part of a lifestyle of vitality. In its most basic sense, self-compassion is being nice to yourself. The core elements of self-compassion are kindness, common humanity, and mindfulness. Self-compassionate individuals tend to care for and nurture themselves and others – making their world a better place to live. By taming your own inner critic, you can improve your relationships, wellbeing and lust for life. Being kind and compassionate can increase resilience and exuberance and strengthen the connection with yourself and others which greatly benefits us mentally, physically, and spiritually.  Mind & body nourishment Lifestyle factors such as physical activity, healthy and balanced nutrition, and good quality sleep are valuable components to good overall wellbeing but can also help us build the energy reserves needed to live with vitality. Contrary to belief, exercise actually increases our energy levels. Nurturing our bodies with the nutrients and vitamins it needs, getting proper rest and relaxation and moving our bodies allows us to experience a healthier, more positive life and allows us to perform to our best ability. Finding the positive A positive outlook or mindset is key to living with vitality. Having an optimistic outlook on life enables you to see yourself and the world from a positive, uplifting, and encouraging viewpoint. Appreciating the small moments, the beauty in life, and positive thinking are powerful ways to reduce stress and improve your wellbeing. However, it can be a struggle to maintain optimism in our day-to-day. Mediating, practicing gratitude, being present, immersing yourself in nature, and spending meaningful time with loved ones are some techniques that can help instill and engrain positivity into our lives. This in turn helps us improve our overall vitality and zest for life. Vitality is all about creating more energy and positivity in our lives. When we are energised and positive, our health improves, we feel happier and therefore lead a life that is thriving and full of vitality. Living with Vitality: The Science of Self-Care To learn more about leading a life with vitality, join the Thrive Wellbeing Hub on Wednesday 8 June at 12 pm for its upcoming wellness webinar, Living with Vitality: The Science of Self-Care, with physician and lifestyle medicine expert, Dr. Mark Rowe.  In this one-hour webinar, we explore the science of self-care, the need for self-compassion, and their role as key strategies for living a life of vitality and for burnout prevention. Dr. Mark Rowe has been a family physician for more than 25 years and is a thought leader in the areas of Lifestyle Medicine and Corporate Wellbeing. He frequently delivers events and workshops for organisations around the world. The three-time author regularly contributes to several publications where he shares his thoughts on positive health and wellbeing practices. In his most recently published book ‘The Vitality Mark’, Dr. Rowe shares practices that are proven to improve health and increase longevity. His self-development programme, VitalityMark™, supports subscribers to live with Vitality by becoming an active participant in their own wellbeing. Vitality Mark is a comprehensive self-assessment questionnaire giving an overall vitality score as well as highlighting relative strengths in separate aspects of your vitality – emotion, physical, mind, spirit and connections. If you would like to hear more from Dr. Rowe, you can follow his work via his newsletter. We hope you can join us for what promises to be an informative and uplifting event. Book your free place here: https://bit.ly/3LCw2wY

Strong social connections not only impact our mental health but our physical health too. In today’s world, we lead increasingly busy lives and often our relationships can sadly fall by the wayside. Feeling socially connected is more important than ever, especially after a long period where our social interactions are restricted, and our close circle reduced. In celebration of International Friendship Day, CA Support discuss the importance of maintaining and prioritising our relationships for our overall health. We're designed to be social We all know that comforting upbeat feeling of human connection, when you come away from a catch up with friends feeling more positive, happier, and even lighter. As a species, human beings are inherently social creatures.  We are biologically wired to seek out connection from a time where humans hunted in tribes and being part of a group was necessary for survival. Humans need closeness, connection, and a sense of unity to thrive. Social connection is one of our core psychological needs which means it plays an essential role in how safe and satisfied we feel in our lives. Social groups provide us with an important part of our identity, forming who we are and teach us a set of skills and norms that help us to function throughout life. In today’s world though we lead increasingly busy lives trying to juggle and balance work, family, and other commitments. Often our friendships can fall to the wayside. However, strong connection and belonging to something bigger than ourselves are important for our overall health and wellbeing. The benefits of connectedness should not be overlooked, and therefore as a society we should be placing greater emphasis on investing in our friendships. The more connected we feel to other people, the more enriched our life becomes. Friendship and being part of a social group offer a variety of mental health benefits. It increases our feeling of belonging, boosts our sense of purpose, and improves our self-worth and confidence. Connectiveness helps us regulate our emotions, leads to higher levels of empathy and compassion, and can even reduce our stress levels. Studies show that people who feel connected to others report lower rates of anxiety and depression. Not only does good social connection impact our psychological wellbeing, its impacts our physical health as well. Countless studies have shown a lack of human connection and feelings of loneliness are more harmful to our health than obesity, smoking and high blood pressure. By neglecting our need to connect, we put our health at risk. It can even lengthen our lives. Extensive research that looked at the lifestyles of inhabitants within Blue Zone areas, a term given to geographically regions that are home to some of the world’s oldest people, found healthy social networks and high levels of community engagement were commonalities among the differing zones. Our relationships and social groups can alter the course of our life, shape the person we are and can change our perception of ourselves and the world as well as offer an important support system.  So as you can see, social connectedness creates a positive cycle of good social, emotional and physical wellbeing. To forge happy and healthy relationships, it is very important we continually attend to and nurture our connection with the people we consider important in our lives. After an incredibly long period where our social interactions were restricted and ultimately reduced, you may find your sense of connection has diminished. Here are some ways you can improve your social health and reignite your connection with others; Reach out to a friend you may have lost touch with, remember it’s never too late to spark up an old friendship! Take time to ring or meet up with a friend you have not seen in a while. Join a new club or try out a group activity: focus in on your interests and you’ll be sure to find a club or group full of like-minded people. Volunteer: this can strengthen your sense of purpose, provides an opportunity to meet new people and give back to your community. Invite a co-worker out for lunch: now we have more freedom to socialise why not reconnect with your favourite work colleague or arrange a work group activity. Spend quality time with family: this could be planning a family BBQ, a movie night on the weekend or a family day out. Be Present: Step away from your devices when you are in company and have an uninterrupted chat. Social isolation is a challenging aspect of life to cope with and is detrimental to your health, please know the Thrive team  is here to lend a friendly ear, if and when you need it.

The Five Ways to Wellbeing was developed by the New Economics Foundation in 2008, where their project collated research from around the world on proven actions that can help us feel good. Wellbeing is a term that has gained popularity in recent years but in its simplest form it is a state of being comfortable, healthy, or happy. In a broader sense, it’s how satisfied you are with life, your sense of purpose, and how in control you feel. The framework is used globally in various ways to build more awareness on our collective wellbeing and help people take action to improve it. Each action can make a positive impact in our lives and most of us will engage with these activities without being aware of it. To get the most from the five steps, it is important to incorporate all of them on a daily basis. Why not try the five today? Connect Social connection is extremely important for our wellbeing. We are social animals, and our need for connection can help us feel happier, increase our feelings of security and safety and gives us a greater sense of belonging and purpose. Make time to connect with others each day. Nurture and invest in your relationships with loved ones.  This could be talking to someone rather than sending an email, speaking to someone new - possibly chatting to another in your local coffee shop or supermarket or taking time out to ask a loved one how they are truly feeling. Be Active Look for ways to be active each day. This doesn’t mean spending hours in the gym though; find an activity you can enjoy and try to incorporate it into your everyday life. Physical activity is intrinsically linked with lower rates of depression and anxiety. Why not take the stairs rather than the lift, go for a walk at lunch, or explore your local park – little changes can reap huge rewards. Take Notice Simply put, be in the moment. Being aware of the now can help you feel calmer and reduce stress. Take stock of what is around you and paying attention to the present – to your own thoughts, feelings and to the world around you. Keep Learning Be curious and ever learning! Continuing to learn throughout life can help boost our self-confidence and self-esteem. As adults, we can be time poor with other day-to-day responsibilities but simple activities such as learning a new recipe, getting around to that DIY project, doing a puzzle or setting yourself a new challenge can help achieve a higher level of wellbeing. Give Giving to others makes us feel good. When we give or help others, it activates parts of the brain associated with trust, social connection and pleasure. It provides a sense of meaning, improves our life satisfaction and mood, and can even reduce stress. Giving up your time to others can also help strengthen relationships or build new ones. Try to complete a small act of kindness today. Research into actions for improving happiness has shown that committing an act of kindness once a week over a six-week period is associated with an increase in wellbeing. And there you have it, the five ways to wellbeing! If you are struggling with your mental or emotional wellbeing, Thrive can help you on your journey to better emotional health. For wellbeing advice, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294.

Retirement is one of the biggest transitional periods than anyone can go through with almost every aspect of our life changing. Suddenly you are met with a massive shift in your pace of lifestyle. While many of us may embrace the change, retirement can be a time of great upheaval physically and emotionally.  With this in mind, it is important to plan and prepare for the change ahead as you embark on this transitional life stage.  A long and fulfilling retirement isn’t just about a pension plan, it also about planning for your lifestyle shift. Without a plan in place, the initial novelty of retirement can wear off pretty quickly, leaving you to struggle to adapt to your new way of life.  Routine & schedule Adjusting to retired life is not something that happens overnight, and it may take a while to adapt. So do try to remember that like any big change in life, it'll take time for you to become accustomed to what comes with retirement. When working we have an imposed schedule and structure but once the 9 to 5 comes to an end, it can be incredibly difficult to fill all the extra hours you now have at your disposal. Across all stages in life, structure and routine are key habits that lead to good wellbeing. It may be tempting to fill your days with laze and leisure which is novel and exciting at first, but feelings of boredom or restlessness can creep in especially if you have been used to a busy schedule. You may want to define some specific routines to maintain order, predictability, and structure. In the run up to your retirement, take some time to consider what your day, week or month will look like. Stay active Staying active through exercise will help keep you healthy both physically and mentally and prolong your life. But it is also important to keep your mind active too. Ongoing learning can help keep you mentally sharp by getting you in the habit of staying mentally active. Having less structured days allows you to take up a new hobby or learn skills and feeds into the need for routine and schedule. Retirement is a great time to discover old and new passions that you felt you didn’t have the time for before.  Taking up a course or classes in your local college, learning to play an instrument, or another meaningful activity that you can enjoy and engage with can keep you mentally fit. The mantra ‘use it or lose it’ most definitely applies here! Connection As we transition from the workforce, our social circle can diminish due to our daily interactions reducing and unfortunately loneliness becomes more common as we get older. Loneliness has a detrimental impact on our health and wellbeing and may significantly increase the chances of poor health. Research found that older adults with a good social life tend to live longer than those who are more isolated and happier retirees were found to have more social interactions. So, whether you are married or single, an introvert or an extrovert, maintaining strong social connections is critical. It is important to keep in contact with friends and connect with your work circle as much as possible. Certain activities can also present opportunities for you to meet new friends or other retirees with similar interests. Taking a new class, joining a book club, participating in your local community centre, or joining an exercise group are just some of the many ways you can stay connected. There is also a wealth of benefits from spending time with grandchildren, it helps you to keep active, improves cognitive skills and can lower the risk of depression. Purpose For many, our sense of purpose can be wrap in what we do for living and measure our success only through our professional lives. Once we leave the workplace, there may be a need to find meaning to fill that void and reinvent your purpose in life. Outside of your profession, try and identify what gives your life meaning and purpose and makes you happy. Retirees have a unique insight and wisdom gained from a lifetime's worth of skills, expertise and competencies that could be of benefit elsewhere and this could mean using talents in service to others. Mentoring and volunteering are fulfilling paths for retirees. Retirees can gain meaningfulness and social and emotional benefits from mentoring and volunteering. But whatever you do in retirement it is important to see this time as an opportunity to live out the second half of your life purposefully.

According to a long-term study by experts at Harvard University, fame and fortune aren’t what keep us happy. Indeed, tens of thousands of pages of information generated by the study suggest that good relationships are crucial, not just for happiness but for our health too. The study also shows how damaging loneliness can be to your overall wellbeing. Those taking part in the study who were more isolated than they wanted to be were less happy, and their health declined earlier in mid life than those who had good social connections. Isolated people, the study suggests, also live shorter lives than those who aren’t lonely. This isn’t the first piece of research to confirm a link between social support and health. Some studies claim having good relationships could make you up to 50% more likely to live a long and healthy life, compared with someone who is isolated. Loneliness isn’t just something that affects older people. But many people find it more difficult to make and maintain new relationships in later life than when they were young. So here are some tips on how to meet new people and make friends in your 50s, 60s, 70s and beyond… Don’t be embarrassed There’s no shame in being lonely, and you’re certainly won’t be the only person who feels isolated. So don’t let embarrassment stop you from doing something about it. You may feel uncomfortable about meeting new people at first. But ask yourself this question: what’s the worst that could happen? If you’re not used to doing much socialising, reaching out to people you don’t know may feel like a risk. But take the plunge and it’s very likely that you’ll discover others feel exactly the same as you do. Meet your neighbours Years ago most people lived in communities where everyone would be on 1st name terms with everyone living around them. These days, you’re lucky if you know who your next-door neighbour is. But being part of a local community is a good way to meet people in your area and may help you feel less isolated. If you don’t know who lives next door, say ‘good day’ to your neighbour next time you see them. Give them a smile whenever you see them, and you’ll soon find an opportunity to start chatting. Once you start getting to know them, invite your neighbours around for a cup of tea on a regular basis. If you already know your next-door neighbours, try to get acquainted with others further down the street to widen your local social circle, and look out for local community groups you could join, such as residents’ associations. Share your interests There are also lots of other groups you could join that may allow you to pursue your hobbies and passions and connect with others at the same time. If you like reading, why not join a near-by book club or reading group? Or if you’re fond of the great outdoors, look for a Ramblers walking group in your local area (visit theramblers.ie). Another website that could help you find a group that shares your interests is meetup.com – just type in your location and choose the subject you’re interested in to find the nearest groups in your area. Meetup groups cater for all tastes and ages, so depending on where you live you’re almost certain to find one you could try. Walk a dog Anyone who has ever walked a dog regularly knows how easy it is to strike up conversations and acquaintances with other dog owners. There’s something about the shared interest of having a pet that makes it easy to talk to a complete stranger who you normally wouldn’t dream of approaching. If you don’t have a dog, you might want to think about offering to walk one for a friend or neighbour. Alternatively, you could consider volunteering as a dog walker at your local animal shelter or join Borrow My Doggy, a website that matches dog owners with local people who can take them for walks and look after them when their owners are away. Do good deeds If you have some spare time on your hands, you may want to think about doing some voluntary work. There are always lots of different organisations that need people to help out, such as local hospitals, schools, churches and a host of different charities. And not only will volunteering get you out and about and meeting people, it will help to boost your self esteem too. Ask for details of groups that need volunteers at your local library, or visit volunteer.ie to find volunteering opportunities in your area. Connect with old friends If you’ve lost touch with friends from the past, you may be amazed at how easy it can be to discover them on social media websites such as Facebook. People of all ages use Facebook to keep in touch with what friends and family members are up to. Social networking is increasingly used by the older generations. So think about giving it a try if you haven’t already done so. Pick up the phone If the idea of signing up to a social media network doesn’t appeal to you, there’s always the telephone. It’s a great tool for getting in touch with people you haven’t spoken to in a while. And who knows, you may make someone’s day by giving them a call. Article reproduced with the kind permission of CABA, the organisation providing lifelong support to ICAEW members, ACA students and their close family around the world.