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Our Thriving Stories series dives into the real-life experiences of members in our profession and what they do to prioritise their wellbeing. Here, we hear from Meabh Cahill, Tax Associate at Grant Thornton NI Director and chair of the Institute's student society, CASSI. How do you prioritize your mental health, and what helps you manage stress? Mental health is an important topic to me as I believe it affects us as much as our physical health. I prioritise my mental health by using practices in my life that help me to be mindful such as yoga, being outside or even reading a book. Taking some time away from the stresses of life to be away from stressing thoughts or away from a screen is really key for me to manage stress. What role does physical activity play in your daily routine, and how do you stay motivated to maintain it? Physical activity plays a big part in my daily routine. I enjoy being outdoors whether this is walking, running, alone or in company, even a 20-minute period spent outside can have a big impact on feeling energised and reset. I play team sports such as tag and touch rugby which help me to get out of my head and think about something other than work or study for a few hours. Motivation is hard so I would say focus on how you will feel after getting out, count to 5 and get out the door! You will never regret doing it but you might regret it if you don’t. What are some self-care practices you incorporate into your life, and how do they benefit you? It might sound odd but the biggest self-care practice I do for myself is to plan and follow a routine where possible. I know I feel at my best when I am in a routine, and I give myself time to enjoy the little things in life like watching a move in the evening. If I know I need to do something the worst thing I can do for my self-care is procrastinate and put the task off as this causes two issues: the actual task and now the guilty feeling about not having done the task! By planning and sticking to a routine I can spend time doing things I love like sport or seeing my friends and not feel guilty about the tasks I should be doing. What do you think are the biggest barriers we face when it comes to discussing their health and wellbeing? I think we often don’t want to burden others with our problems, so we don’t share how we are feeling, or we feel embarrassed about our feelings. We might find that if we share more often, the reverse might be true in that people can relate with what we are feeling and it might give a friend or family member to confide in you and open up more about their own feelings. What are some areas of your health and wellbeing that you’d like to focus on or improve in the coming year? I would like to try and focus on trying some new activities and having new experiences in 2025. I believe that trying new things and putting yourself outside of your comfort zones can teach you how to deal with difficult feelings and overcoming fear. Sometimes it is easier said than done but that is the plan!

It’s crucial to highlight the challenges faced by all of us in the accountancy profession—a high-stakes, detail-oriented field that often grapples with tight deadlines, heavy workloads, and complex regulatory environments. Whether you're a seasoned accountant or just starting your career, managing stress is essential for both your mental health and professional performance. Stress is a natural part of life, but when it becomes chronic, it can significantly impact your health, well-being, and ability to perform at work. In the context of accountancy, stress might arise from managing intricate financial data, navigating regulatory compliance, or balancing multiple client demands. So how can we manage workplace stress and, more importantly, our personal stress while maintaining a healthy work-life balance? 1. Recognise the Signs of Stress The first step in managing stress is recognising when it’s becoming an issue. Stress manifests differently in everyone, but some common signs include irritability, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, muscle tension, and trouble sleeping. It’s easy to ignore these symptoms in the rush of meeting deadlines, but doing so can lead to burnout—a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged stress. In the accountancy profession, the pressure to avoid errors while delivering results on time can create a cycle of stress that builds up over time. It’s essential to pay attention to the warning signs and address them before they escalate. 2. Prioritise Time Management and Organisation One of the leading causes of stress in accountancy is the constant juggling of tasks and deadlines. Time management is crucial in minimising stress. Developing effective organisational habits, such as maintaining an up-to-date calendar and using project management tools, can help accountants keep track of deadlines, prioritise tasks, and allocate time for each project efficiently. Breaking down large tasks into smaller, manageable steps can also reduce the overwhelming feeling of having too much to do. For example, when working on an audit, plan specific stages of completion with realistic deadlines. This approach can reduce the pressure of delivering everything at once. 3. Set Boundaries to Maintain Work-Life Balance In today’s always-connected world, it’s easy to blur the lines between work and personal time. For accountants, especially during peak periods like tax season, this can lead to long hours and an inability to fully disconnect from work, both physically and mentally. Setting clear boundaries between work and personal life is essential to maintain balance. This might mean turning off work notifications after a certain hour or designating a specific time for personal activities, such as exercise, family time, or hobbies. By respecting these boundaries, you can recharge your energy levels and return to work more focused and productive. 4. Self-care isn’t selfish – take control of your own well-being Mindfulness and relaxation techniques can be powerful tools in managing stress. Techniques such as deep breathing exercises, meditation, and yoga can help you stay grounded during stressful moments. In a fast-paced work environment, taking just a few minutes to breathe deeply or meditate can significantly reduce stress levels. Additionally, regular physical exercise, whether it’s a morning run, or a lunchtime walk, can help clear your mind and boost your energy. Physical activity is proven to reduce cortisol, the body’s stress hormone, and increase endorphins, which improve your mood and mental outlook. 5. Seek Support When Needed Accountants may feel the need to keep up a professional facade and handle stress on their own. However, it’s vital to recognise that seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness. Stress is an unavoidable part of any profession, especially in a demanding field like accountancy.  Many organisations are increasingly recognising the importance of mental health support in the workplace and offer employee assistance programs (EAPs), which provide confidential counselling services and resources to help employees manage stress and other personal challenges.  Here at Chartered Accountants Ireland, the Thrivewellbeing team can help you take that first step to seeking help from a professional – get in touch to talk to them in complete confidence. In summary, by recognising the signs of stress, prioritising time management, setting boundaries, and seeking support, when necessary, accountants can build resilience and maintain a healthy balance between work and personal life.

Burnout is a term we hear a lot of it when dealing with workplace stress and is a pressing issue for employees and students alike. Prolonged or severe workplace stress can lead to burnout. Here we discuss what burnout is and how we can deal with it to regain balance and begin to feel hopeful again. What is burnout? Burnout is a relatively new concept with the term first coined in 1974 by psychologist, Herbert Freudenberger. It is defined by the World Health Organisation (WHO) as “a syndrome conceptualised as resulting from chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed. It is characterised by three dimensions: feelings of energy depletion or exhaustion; increased mental distance from one’s job, or feelings of negativism or cynicism related to one's job; and reduced professional efficacy.” In 2019, burnout was recognised by the WHO as an ‘occupational phenomenon’. Feelings of burnout typically occur when you are overwhelmed at work and feel as if you can no longer keep up with the demands of the job. A large-scale study by Workhuman and Gallup found that employees in Ireland are suffering from burnout and stress more often than our European counterparts with 3 in 10 employees in Ireland reporting being burnt out very often or always. The same research found employees in Ireland are the most likely to report being stressed with 6.5 in 10 saying they experienced stress ‘a lot’ the previous day. We spend most of our waking life at work, so if we dislike it, dread going, and are extremely dissatisfied with what we are doing, it can place a serious toll on our lives. However, it is more than just the ‘Sunday Scaries’. Burnout is a gradual process and if left unaddressed can lead to many far-reaching and serious consequences. Therefore, it’s important to deal with burnout at an early stage. The burnout stages As mentioned previously, burnout isn’t a sudden onset, it develops gradually over time with symptoms and signs increasing in intensity. Research has identified that these 5 stages (outlined below) are commonly observed.   The Honeymoon Stage- this usually occurs at the start of a new job or project where productivity, optimism, energy and job satisfaction are high. Onset of Stress – like all honeymoon periods, these feelings begin to dwindle and wane. This stage is where we consciously become aware of work stressors. Chronic Stress – this stage is where we notice a marked difference in stress levels and intensity on a more frequent basis. Burnout – this is where we begin to reach our capacity limit and can no longer function like we normally would. Work and its issues begin to consume you and you tend to experience serious self-doubt and symptoms become persistent. Habitual Burnout – If left untreated, burnout can become embedded into our daily lives and we experience chronic mental and physical exhaustion and adverse behavioural changes. Symptoms of Burnout These are the signs to look-out for if you think you are reaching burnout. Symptoms of burnout are wide-ranging affecting us physically, emotionally and behaviourally. Getting sick more often - Burnout can cause long-term changes to your body, weakening immunity that makes you increasingly more vulnerable to illnesses like colds and flu. Frequent headaches, muscle pain, or gastrointestinal issues – caused by prolonged stress and being in fight or flight mode constantly. Pattern and habit changes – such as sleep issues or loss of appetite. Feeling tired and drained all the time – regardless of how much rest you get. Concentration issue due to overload. Low mood – loss of motivation, having an increasingly cynical/negative outlook, feeling detachment and withdrawing from others. Feeling helpless, trapped, and defeated. Procrastinating on tasks and duties and retreating from responsibility. Skipping work, arriving late and leaving early. Coping Strategies Early intervention is key for preventing burnout and reaching the latter stages of burnout. Burnout is a risk factor for other serious diseases such as depression, heart attacks, stroke, osteoporosis, diabetes, and reduced life expectancy. The good news is we can bounce back from burnout. But what can you do to avoid reaching total burnout? Take the time off work you need to recharge and assess your situation. Speak with your manager or HR department about your workload, how and what you are struggling with – do you have a lot on your plate work-wise? Could some tasks be delegated or put on pause? Know your boundaries and limitations- poor and blurred boundaries are the main reasons people reach burnout. Often, we can say yes to too many work requests that we may not necessarily be able to take on. It requires strength but don’t be afraid to say no to certain work projects or tasks. It is important to set clear work boundaries, take regular breaks and set a work schedule to protect your health. Look after yourself- move your body, try stress management techniques, make sure you sleep and rest enough, and feed your body with nutritious foods. Check out our article, foods to manage stress. Be compassionate and patient with yourself – recovering from burnout is not a linear process. Talk to a professional to discover coping strategies that will personally work for you. How we can help The Thrive Wellbeing Hub provides free emotional supports to members, students and family members. We offer a confidential space for you to talk, whether you need a listening ear, wellbeing advice or professional counselling, we are here for you. You can contact the thrive wellbeing team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294

We all get stressed from time to time. A certain amount of stress can be useful but if you feel constantly overwhelmed this can lead to health problems. This article will look at the causes of stress and provide some tips on how to increase your resilience. You probably know the feeling of being stressed out all too well. Your breathing quickens, your heart starts to pound, your mouth feels dry, your muscles feel tense, your hands feel cold yet sweaty. Situations we find stressful can vary widely from person to person as some of us are more susceptible to the effects of stress than others. These situations trigger the release of stress hormones that are responsible for the way you feel when stressed. This is called the stress response, or the fight or-flight response. Survival mechanism The term fight or flight was first used by American physiologist Walter Bradford Cannon back in the early 1900s. It describes the body's automatic response to danger which is thought to have evolved as a way of helping humans react quickly to life-threatening situations. This response is triggered so fast you won't have time to think about it. Here's how it works: Step 1 In the presence of danger, the eyes and/or ears send information to the area of the brain involved in emotional processing, called the amygdala. The amygdala sends a distress signal to a tiny area at the base of the brain called the hypothalamus, which communicates with the body via the nervous system. Step 2 The hypothalamus activates the part of the nervous system called the sympathetic nervous system. This then sends signals to the adrenal glands, which respond by producing hormones including adrenaline, norepinephrine and cortisol into the bloodstream. As these hormones circulate through the body they bring about a range of physiological changes, such as: Faster heart rate Increase in blood pressure Faster breathing rate Increase in mental alertness Decreased saliva production Increased sweating Sharpening of senses such as sight and hearing Increased energy (caused by the release of sugars and fats into the muscles) Reduced urination Step 3 If the brain perceives the threat as ongoing the hypothalamus releases more hormones. These act on the adrenal glands, making them release more cortisol and leaving the body in a continued high state of alertness. Step 4 When the brain perceives the threat as having passed, cortisol levels fall and the hypothalamus activates the parasympathetic nervous system, which dampens the stress response.  Long-term effects Though the threats we encounter these days are usually very different from those faced by our prehistoric ancestors, the stress response is still useful as it boosts our awareness in stressful situations and helps us cope with emergencies. If your fight-or-flight response is triggered too often and for too long, the constant release of stress hormones in your body can lead to one or more of the health problems associated with chronic stress. These include digestive issues, impaired resistance to colds and other infections, heart disease, sleep difficulties, weight gain, anxiety and depression. While it's unlikely you'll be able to remove stress from your life entirely, there are steps you can take care of your physical and emotional wellbeing. Try to make your lifestyle as healthy as possible by: Eating well Eat a healthy balanced diet. Have at least five portions of fruit and vegetables every day and try to limit how much sugar you eat. Sleeping well Getting a good night's sleep (read our tips for a better night's sleep for pointers). Learning how to relax Try yoga, meditation, deep breathing or whatever helps you feel calm. Move more Taking regular exercise can help reduce the build-up of stress hormones in the body. Improve your resilience Increasing your resilience can help you to cope with stressful situations. Learn how to be more resilient by reading our article 5 ways to boost your resilience.  If stress or any other issues is impacted your health or quality of life, the Thrive Wellbeing Hub has a multitude of supports you can avail of. From 1:1 listening service to professional counselling, contact Thrive to discuss your options.  Article reproduced with the kind permission of CABA, the organisation providing lifelong support to ICAEW members, ACA students and their close family around the world.

We can feel like we need or want to say yes to everything – the fun weekend plans, that big project at work, family commitments but without clear boundaries, we may find ourselves feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and even resentful as we stretch ourselves too thin in an attempt to meet everyone’s demands. Boundaries define what we perceive as acceptable and unacceptable in our interactions with ourselves and others, both in our personal and professional lives. Establishing and upholding boundaries is not only about protecting our time and energy but also about fostering healthy, respectful relationships with others.  Understanding Boundaries: What Are They? Boundaries can be thought of as personal limits that help to safeguard our needs, values, and energy. They set the tone for how we interact with others and how we allow others to treat us. Some may build very high and rigid boundaries, which can be an isolating experience that distances us from people. Some may lack boundaries which can leave us vulnerable and with a loss of identity.  In a professional setting, boundaries are crucial to avoid burnout, enhance productivity, and maintain a sense of balance. While in personal relationships, they protect our emotional health and ensure that interactions remain respectful and supportive. Why Boundaries Matter Without boundaries, it’s easy to fall into patterns of people-pleasing, overworking, or neglecting our own needs and can lead to a variety of negative outcomes, including: Burnout: Continuously taking on too many responsibilities or neglecting self-care leads to exhaustion, irritability, and a sense of being overwhelmed. Resentment: When we fail to establish boundaries, we may feel taken advantage of, leading to negative emotions and strained relationships. Poor Work-Life Balance: Without boundaries, our personal and professional lives can blur, making it difficult to switch off and enjoy downtime. Decreased Productivity: When we don’t protect our time and energy, we may find ourselves less focused, less efficient, and prone to making mistakes. How to set boundaries Setting and maintaining healthy boundaries is a complex ongoing process. Everyone has different boundaries, so it may be hard to know where to start. To set boundaries, you must understand what you need to create an environment where you can function at your best. Boundaries can be a whole range of aspects in your life. They can be physical, emotional, intellectual, financial, or sexual. They can be rigid, non-negotiable, flexible or compromising. You might set boundaries around your time, your privacy, what topics you’re comfortable discussing — anything to protect your emotional and physical space. Setting boundaries require self-awareness. Be clear and honest with yourself and others about your expectations, what you’re comfortable with and what you need. Know Your Limits The first step in setting boundaries is understanding your limits and own needs. It’s important to be honest with yourself about what you can handle. Take the time to reflect on what is sustainable to you, your feelings, and what your body and mind are telling you. This involves assessing your personal and professional capacity, for example, what your workload is like, how much time you can dedicate to a task or obligation, maybe you might need time alone to recharge every so often. Communicate Your Boundaries Once you have a clear understanding of your limits, it's essential to communicate them to others. In the workplace, this could mean saying “no” to requests that conflict with your priorities or setting clear expectations around response times to emails and messages. Express your boundaries calmly and clearly, and make sure others understand what is and isn’t acceptable. Being assertive doesn't mean being rude or dismissive, but rather confidently expressing your needs and limitations in a way that is respectful to both yourself and others. Enforce Your Boundaries Setting boundaries is only effective if you follow through and enforce them. Be consistent in your responses and actions. If someone crosses your boundaries, gently but firmly remind them of your limits. Be patient but stay firm in protecting your boundaries. Prioritise Your Time Respect your time and encourage others to do the same. This helps maintain a sense of control over your day and reduces the chance of burnout. Time boundaries help you protect your schedule, making sure you’re not overcommitting or stretching yourself too thin. Consider setting limits on when you check your work email or turn off notifications outside of work hours. Create a clear divide between work and personal time to avoid feeling like you’re always “on call.” Practice Self-Care Setting boundaries also means prioritising your wellbeing by practicing self-care. Whether it’s taking a break from social obligations or carving out time for a hobby, respecting your need for personal space and time is an essential part of maintaining healthy relationships. Don’t feel guilty for saying “no” to social events or family gatherings if it interferes with your wellbeing. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining a healthy balance between our personal and professional lives. They protect our mental and emotional wellbeing, ensure that we maintain healthy relationships, and allow us to prioritise our needs without guilt. While setting boundaries can be challenging, it’s a necessary skill that enables us to live more fulfilling, balanced lives. By understanding and communicating our limits, practicing self-care, and enforcing our boundaries, we create space for personal growth, respect, and peace of mind. Ultimately, healthy boundaries are the foundation of a happier, more productive life. Thrive is the Institute’s dedicated wellbeing hub which provides emotional and practical support to our members, students and their family members for life. Should you find yourself in a difficult situation, the team at Thrive can help steer you through life’s ups and downs. Talk to us today on mobile: (353) 86 024 3294 or email us.

The term emotional intelligence is something we hear a lot of these days and has become a buzzword of sorts in the wellness space. However, it is a critical skill and its importance on our wellbeing, work performance and interpersonal relationships shouldn't be underestimated. Emotional intelligence is defined as the ability to identify and regulate one's emotions and understand the emotions of others. Here, we look at emotional intelligence, its impacts, and how to develop and improve it. Characteristics of emotional intelligence Essentially, emotional intelligence is being aware of our emotions, how they drive behaviour and impact ourselves and others (negatively and positively). Some experts even believe that it is more important in determining life success than IQ. There are certain traits and key signs associated with emotional intelligence. Some include: An ability to identify and describe how you and other people are feeling Self-confidence and acceptance Being able to accept and let go of mistakes and move on quickly Acceptance and embracing of change Feelings of empathy and concern for others Being sensitive and astute to others’ feelings and emotions Being able to manage emotions in difficult situations or within conflict The 5 elements of emotional intelligence According to psychologist Daniel Goleman, who popularised the concept, there are five components to emotional intelligence. Self-awareness Self-awareness is considered the core foundation of emotional intelligence. Strong self-awareness is recognising and understanding your emotions, knowing why you are feeling a certain way and acknowledging their impact on you and others. It is also about knowing your strengths and weaknesses, what your values are and having a strong moral compass. Self-awareness is a key skill in managing our wellbeing too, it helps with decision-making and helps you instinctively make the right choices for you. Conversely, it is suggested those with lower EI exhibit uncontrolled and misunderstood emotions which can heighten their susceptibility to a host of mental health concerns such as stress, anxiety, and depression. Self-regulation Once you have an awareness over your emotions, the next step is being able to manage and regulate your emotions – particularly the negative ones. This is not to be misconstrued as bottling up or hiding your true feelings. Self-regulation is about expressing yourself appropriately. It is one’s ability not to act impulsively or hastily based on emotions, steady self-regulation allows us to reduce how intense our emotions and reactions are. Motivation The next element is the ability to motivate, not only yourself but others too. Motivation is the drive to improve ourselves, set standards and expectations for ourselves and our desire to achieve. This type of motivation goes beyond external rewards though, it is based on a desire to fulfill inner needs and goals. In a work setting, those who are highly motivated tend to be action-oriented, always looking for ways to do things betters, are very committed, and like to take the initiative. Empathy Being empathetic is another key foundation of good emotional intelligence. An important interpersonal skill, empathy is having an understanding of others’ thoughts, feelings and emotions and respecting their point of view. Empathy for others can help foster stronger relationships and is especially vital in the workplace as it is integral to understanding workplace dynamics, influences and how different situations can be interpreted. It can also guide the interactions we have with different people we encounter daily. Social Skills The final element in the emotional intelligence concept is social skills, which is the ability to properly manage others’ emotions, and the ability to connect, interact, influence and work with a range of people effectively. Having strong social skills allows people to build strong and meaningful relationships. In work settings, people can benefit from effective social skills as it allows us to develop strong rapport and trust. In emotional intelligence, social skills include active listening, verbal communication skill, non-verbal communication skills, leadership and persuasiveness. Take a look at our Communicating with impact webinar to learn more about building these key communication skills. Developing our emotional intelligence Emotional intelligence infiltrates all aspects of our lives and is essential for understanding ourselves as well as how successful we are in navigating our social world. Research has found being emotionally intelligent is associated with professional success, financial security, fulfilling and meaningful relationships, increased life satisfaction as well as better overall physical and mental health. While some tend to be more naturally adept, the good news is that these skills can be learned, developed, and strengthen over time. Here are some ways you can strengthen your emotional intelligence. Know yourself – Practice and develop your own self-awareness by becoming more in tune with your emotions and your emotional reactions and responses. Knowing what and how you are feeling can help you identify and process your emotions and strengthen your ability to communicate them in a healthy way. To strengthen your awareness, make a note of when you are experiencing strong feelings, what made you feel that way, and if there were any adverse reactions to those feelings. Communicate and listen – Strong communication skills are essential for developing emotional intelligence and crucial for building strong relationships. Work on communicating openly and be willing to share your own feelings. People communicate verbally and non-verbally, so it is helpful to actively listen and observe reactions.  Active listening involves listening with all senses and paying full attention to the speaker. To develop this skill try nodding along, asking questions or repeating points they have made to show you are listening and understand what the speaker is saying. Empathy – Be mindful of how others may be feeling. While you may not feel that way or have a differing stance in a situation, being empathic means you can imagine yourself in someone else’s position and can acknowledge how and why they may be feeling a certain way. To build empathy, take the other person’s feelings into consideration in a way that is respectful and comforting to the other person. The Thrive Wellbeing Hub provides free practical and emotional support to members, students and family members. We offer a confidential space for you to talk, whether you need a listening ear, wellbeing advice or professional counselling, we are here for you. You can contact the thrive wellbeing team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294