Maintaining and achieving good health is imperative for our physical and mental wellbeing. However, there are barriers that can get in the way of keeping our body and mind healthy, especially for men. Therefore, it is important to recognise what prevents or deters men from seeking help and support when it comes to their health. Here, the Thrive Wellbeing Hub explores these barriers and shares simple but effective steps to keeping healthy both physically and mentally. Knowledge & Awareness Although men are not a homogenous group, there are similarities when it comes to awareness and knowledge of health issues compared to females. Men are prone to engage in more unhealthy habits compared to females. Females on average have a higher life expectancy, males tend to have higher rates of obesity, a greater proportion of males smoke, and there is higher participation in binge drinking and drug use. Poor lifestyles are responsible for a large proportion of chronic diseases. The four main causes of death among males in Ireland are cancer, circulatory system diseases, respiratory system diseases, and external causes of injury and poisoning. It is suggested that men tend to be less informed about the risk factors, causation and symptoms of poor health and certain diseases. This lack of knowledge and awareness may prevent men from seeking help as they are simply unaware of the symptoms surrounding certain illnesses. Therefore, it is important for us to educate ourselves on the signs and symptoms of poor health. Perception As outlined above, men tend to adopt unhealthier behaviours and are at greater risk for all leading causes of death. However, men are less likely to consult or visit a health professional compared to women and perception is a significant barrier to males engaging in health-seeking behaviours. This is where the severity of a health concern is underestimated or brushed off as nothing serious. Late presentation to health services is a cause for concern and can lead to health issues worsening or becoming untreatable. It's important to take action as soon as you notice something isn't quite right. Stigma Gender roles and the construct of masculinity have been cited as barriers to men looking after their health, especially when it comes to mental health. Perceptions associated with masculinity can result in men being more reluctant to speak out on mental health issues or engage in help-seeking behaviour for fear of being seen as weak or not embodying the traditional and frankly outdated attributes of what is considered masculine. This stigma allows for men’s mental health needs to often fly under the radar. This is evident in the high suicide rates of males in Ireland. Of the 504 deaths due to suicide in 2020, 72.6% occurred to males (CSO).    Thankfully, this ideology is shifting, and men’s attitudes and awareness of mental health are changing. Being honest and open with yourself about how you are feeling and communicating this to loved ones or a mental health professional is so important. Proactive Steps Men and those who support them have an active role to play in encouraging and supporting men to take small steps to be proactive in both their physical and mental health. Let’s challenge ourselves to take action and incorporate small changes to help improve our overall health: Eat well Exercise and spend time outdoors Reduce alcohol intake Know the signs of poor mental health, suicidal ideations, and other health conditions Schedule a medical, arrange a blood test and engage in screening services and programmes Talk and Listen – Confide in a loved one or someone impartial, ask if everything is okay, listen and help empower the men in our lives to take action If you are struggling with your mental or emotional wellbeing, Thrive can help you on your journey to better health. For wellbeing advice, contact the team by email at: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie or by phone: (+353) 86 0243294.

During exam season, it can be a struggle to build and maintain momentum in the final weeks of preparation for the big exams. Stress levels can be at an all-time high and while some stress can help keep you motivated and focused, too much can be unhelpful. Here we look at tactics and strategies to help you focus your efforts and build study resilience in the weeks ahead. The Art of Distraction With a mammoth task like exam preparation, it can be easy to fall into the trap of procrastination – we’ve all been there!  However, the more you procrastinate the worse you feel and the greater your anxiety might become. The psychology profession outlines two types of procrastination – active and passive. Active procrastinators deliberately decide to procrastinate as they believe they work better under pressure. Whereas passive procrastination is seen as the more negative of the two where people are paralysed by indecision or lack of confidence, loading them with anxiety causing even further stress and inaction. Passive procrastination is usually a sign of something bigger – performance anxiety, fear of failure or simply to avoid negative feelings.  At its core, procrastination is about emotions, not productivity. Therefore, it is important to identify the reason why you are procrastinating and try to address it. There are ways to beat the procrastination bug if it’s really impacting your focus, here is where your study schedule and a reward system will come in handy. Blocking out chunks of time for study will help you concentrate on the task in hand. Don’t bite of more than you can chew either though, quick burst of 30-40 minutes study might work best for you to help keep your focus.  Reward yourself after completing a task whether that’s a quick cup of tea and a treat, a scroll through your social media or half an hour of your favourite show. Tap into and regulate your emotions with mindfulness techniques, mediation or breathing exercises to better manage your feelings around studying and exams. Time Management Time management is key to exam success and helps you gain control. Use a day planner or a weekly schedule to help you determine your available time. Managing and mapping out your day can bring structure to your study without it feeling too overwhelming. However, be realistic with your schedule and don’t overload your day. For maximum efficiency, determine and prioritise the subjects you find most difficult and focus on them first. Certain subjects may also warrant more study time than others. Get to know your body clock, there may be times throughout the day or week where you feel more alert or sluggish than usual and use these times to your advantage. Track your progress and by the end of the week you will feel a sense of accomplishment with all the work you have done over the past few days, and it will help shape your schedule for the next week. Most importantly, schedule time for relaxing activities and exercise too - your body and mind will thank you for it! Studies have shown that exercise improves cognitive performance so consider it as part of the exam preparation. Meet up or chat with friends and family to help you reset and have time away from work and study for some fun. Think of the Bigger Picture! When caught up in the stress of study and exams, it can be hard to motivate yourself and gain perspective on why you are actually doing it. Studying to be a chartered accountant is challenging – the personal sacrifices you have made, the unattended social gatherings, the copious amounts of exams and years you have already put in etc. But if you look to your goals and the end game you can find the motivation to carry on. Think of why you decided to become an accountant in the first place, the career goals you want to achieve and where you want to be in a few years’ time. These exams are leading up to something bigger and are a means to achieving your goal. By keeping this in mind, it can help you attain the self-discipline and encouragement you might need when you feel your efforts and motivation begin to wane. Wishing you all the best for the weeks ahead. Happy Studying! If you need more advice on preparing for your exams, Thrive has a dedicated student hub to help you navigate student life. Alternatively, you can contact the CA Support wellbeing team in confidence on mobile: (353) 86 024 3294 or by email: thrive@charteredaccountants.ie.

Self-compassion is the ability to treat yourself with the same care and kindness as you would a good friend who was going through a difficult and stressful time. 'Unlike self-criticism, which asks if you're good enough, self-compassion asks what's good for you, what do you need?' Kristin Neff Showing compassion to others When we are compassionate to others, we have an intention to be with them through the difficulties they are experiencing and to alleviate their suffering and stress in some way. This can often be very different to the way we treat ourselves through the challenges of life. How often have we provided support for someone we care about and yet end up criticising ourselves endlessly for our various perceived inadequacies or shortcomings. Many of us have been taught to put others first. But neglecting ourselves in order to do this isn't an effective or sustainable long term strategy without considering what we need to keep emotionally well. Maintaining the inner capacity to be there for our family, friends and colleagues is reliant on looking after ourselves well. Self-compassion means you are understanding and kind to yourself when confronted with personal failings and mistakes – after all, whoever said you were supposed to be perfect? Why we need to be compassionate towards ourselves Feeling stressed and being hard on ourselves is very common, especially in a culture which is increasingly performance and target focused. Loneliness and isolation are also increasing in our ever digitally focused world. If you are finding it difficult to manage the many challenges, threats and distractions of our modern world, you are not alone. With current figures of one in four people developing a mental health difficulty in any given year and the rising levels of distress within young people, many people are struggling to align life with their deeper values and needs. A self-critical and unkind stance towards yourself when you are going through testing times will only serve to activate the fight or flight stress response, clouding the minds ability to remain calm. Some people may feel reluctant to develop self-compassion as they might feel the notion is self-indulgent or self-pitying. But developing the ability and strength to face and manage our difficulties, without isolating ourselves from others and becoming absorbed in our own pain is the essence of courageous living. Being able to attend to your own difficulties and challenges wisely will enable you to have the spare emotional capacity to engage with others and life in a more helpful way. According to Kristin Neff there are three key elements to compassion: Self-kindness An ability to relate to ourselves with warmth and kindness. Common humanity The appreciation that we all suffer at times and you are not alone in these feelings. Mindful awareness The ability to view our difficulties in a balanced perspective so that we can keep engaging in life. How to develop emotional resilience There has been much interest in the effects of developing compassion within ourselves from a scientific perspective. Research has shown that people who score high on self-compassion: Cope better with adversities Take more personal initiative and responsibility Are less fearful of making mistakes and being rejected Are more emotionally intelligent, happier and more optimistic Take better care of themselves physically and emotionally The good news is that our compassionate self can be developed and enhanced through training and practice so that we become more attuned to supporting ourselves through the difficulties of life rather than sabotaging ourselves and making situations more unmanageable than they need to be. How to be kinder and more compassionate to yourself Be aware of your internal voice Becoming aware of how we talk to ourselves, the tone of voice we use and language we use gives us the opportunity to move from harshness to supportive tendencies. Noticing the good Being able to notice and celebrate moments of the day and our good qualities is an essential part of managing and balancing difficult times. Each day ask yourself: When have I been at my best today for someone else? What has been my best moment of today? Give yourself encouragement It is more effective to become your own internal ally and support system rather than your own harshest critic. Written by: Kirsty Lilley Kirsty has delivered mindfulness and self-compassion courses to a wide variety of workplaces during her career and is also a trained psychotherapist and coach. She has worked at a strategic level within organisations developing wellbeing policies and been responsible for developing training courses on improving mental health and wellbeing. Kirsty is committed to an integrated and compassionate approach when helping others to fulfil their potential. Article reproduced with the kind permission of CABA, the organisation providing lifelong support to ICAEW members, ACA students and their close family around the world.

Edel Walsh outlines the signs and symptoms of academic burnout and explains how students can overcome it Since the pandemic, we have been hearing and talking more about people suffering with workplace burnout. However, in my own coaching practice, I am seeing the rise of academic burnout, a subject not often discussed. According to the World Health Organization, “Burnout is a syndrome conceptualised as resulting from chronic workplace stress that has not been successfully managed”. Academic burnout is not simply a result of a challenging course load. It can be several factors that overwhelm students, leaving them feeling drained and disengaged.  Common contributors include: Excessive workload – This leads to overwhelm, stress and exhaustion;  Perfectionism – students may have unrealistic expectations causing frustration and disappointment; and Lack of support – students can feel socially isolated where there is a lack of support from their peers, family, friends, and the workplace.  Symptoms of academic burnout The symptoms of academic burnout can present themselves physically, emotionally, and behaviourally.  The physical signs of burnout can include: Feeling tired and drained most of the time; Lowered immunity, frequent illnesses and being unable to shift coughs and colds; Frequent headaches or muscle pain; and Change in appetite or sleep habits. The emotional signs of burnout can include: Sense of failure and self-doubt; Feeling helpless, trapped and defeated;  Detachment; Loss of motivation; and  Increasingly cynical and negative outlook.  Finally, the behavioural signs of burnout can include: Withdrawing from responsibilities; Isolating from others; Procrastinating; Using food, drugs, or alcohol to cope;  Taking out frustrations on others; and  Skipping out on study or even skipping exams. When it comes to burnout, it is useful to think about the “three R” approach. Recognise: Know the signs of burnout. Reverse: Seek support to manage stress and overwhelm. Resilience: Take care of both physical and emotional health Preventing academic burnout As discussed in Dee Frances’s article on page 8, it is important for students to find balance between work, study, and other commitments. At the start of every week, get a bird’s eye view of what the week ahead looks like and plan your week from there. Creating a realistic schedule for your work, study, and other commitments, as outlined by Moira Dunne at page 14, will give you the feeling that you are in control. Ensure you are incorporating plenty of breaks into your routine and be sure to have something in your week that you can look forward to.  I always encourage students to incorporate self-care into their weekly plan and study routines. Prioritising self-care and breaks fuels productivity when it comes to study.  There is no magic formula when it comes to self-care while you study. It will depend on you as an individual. It can be as simple as going for a nice walk, meeting a friend for a coffee or listening to a podcast that is not related to your study.  Seek support if you need it. You can do anything, but you can’t do everything. Develop a strong support system through peer groups, friends and family that will champion and support you.  Overcoming academic burnout For those of you who are grappling with academic burnout there are number of things you can do. Take some time to understand the root cause of the burnout. This will help you identify areas for improvement.  Seek support from a healthcare professional.  Reflect on your goals. Most students will have set a performance goal such as “I want to pass my exam first time around”. When we focus on a performance goal such as this, it can feel overwhelming. Instead, break this goal down into a learning goal. Instead of focusing on the outcome, focus on the lesson. For example, “Today I want to learn the conditions of retirement relief. I will check my understanding of this by doing a past exam question”. This will help reduce that feeling of overwhelm.  Prioritising your sleep, nutrition, exercise, and hobbies will go a long way in helping you overcome burnout.  Incorporate breathing or mindfulness into your study routine. This will help you move from a stressed state to a calmer state. A simple technique is to take a deep abdominal breath in for seven seconds and breathe out for eleven seconds. When the “out” breath is longer than the “in” breath, it is activating the parasympathetic nervous system (rest and digest) and easing the sympathetic nervous system (fight, flight, or freeze). By recognising the signs of academic burnout, implementing preventive strategies, and seeking help when needed, students can navigate the pressures of their exams, while preserving their mental health and well-being.  Edel Walsh is a student and exam coach. She supports her clients with their studies and exams using a holistic approach of focusing on academic success, personal development and looking after their well-being. For more information, check out www.edelwalsh.ie  

Moira Dunne outlines eight top tips to make the most of your study sessions this exam season During exams, it can be hard to manage your time when you are studying alone, concentrate for long periods of time and stay motivated day to day.  Here are some study tips to help you stay calm and ace your exams. The list includes things to do in advance to set yourself up for a day of studying, as well as ideas to stay on track. Tip 1: Have a dedicated study space Set up a good study space; a place that helps you ‘get in the zone’ when you sit down to hit the books.  Not everyone has the luxury of a separate room, but even if you are studying in a shared room in your house, think about the best way to set the space up. Here are some things to consider:  Get a comfortable chair; Have your desk and screen at the correct height to minimise neck or arm strain; Clear any clutter to create a calm, clean area. This helps your mind stay clear; and Add a picture or plant to inspire you to spend time in the space. Tip 2: Get organised New items in our arsenal can motivate us to get started. Plan ahead and get all the stationery and tools you need before you have to put pen to paper. This saves time when you are studying.  This method can also stop you from procrastinating, as we often use basic prep as a reason to procrastinate. Bright stationery stimulates the brain, too. By using these tools to summarise and organise your thoughts, you are making it easier for your brain to retain and recall information.  Tip 3: Make a study plan If you know your exam start date, work backwards and count how many days you have to prepare. Identify some key points to reach (milestones) along the way. Then divide up your work, considering:  What is the best order to study your subjects? How much can you do each day? What are the milestones and when?  By planning your topics for each day, or even each half day, you are breaking up the big pile of work into manageable chunks, making it easier for the brain to get started and stay focused. Whatever study plan you create, make it visible on the wall or your desktop. And make sure you review it and amend it as things change. Staying on top of and updating your plan as you go is key to making your plan work for you. Tip 4: Have a regular routine It helps our mind and our body to have a regular routine.  Study at the same time each day. If you have a full day, start early as that’s when our energy and focus is generally higher. This makes it easier to concentrate and learn, and you will get through elements quicker. If possible, finish early and take a break. This helps your brain to rest and switch off before you try to sleep. Tip 5: Remove distractions We all know how distracting our phones are. Every time there is a notification, we want to check it. We also pick up our devices and check them subconsciously, distracting us unintentionally. Everyone will have a range of distractions in their study space. We can’t easily eliminate humans or pets, so our phone is one thing we can control. To enable a short burst of concentration, leave your phone in another room. Even if only it’s only for 30 minutes, you can focus, concentrate and learn during that time.  Once that 30 minutes is over, take a short break, check your phone if you need to, and return to focus again after five minutes. Out of sight is out of mind, so you are less likely to miss the phone or pick it up without realising it.  Tip 6: Be active – test yourself It is very hard to focus and concentrate if you are just reading for long periods of time. So, make your studying an active exercise. Here are some ways you can do it: Make summary notes at the end of each topic; Highlight key points; Create reference cards for revisions; Take a test or a quiz; or Test yourself with past exam questions. Tip 7: Eat well and hydrate Sometimes, you will need treats and snacks for motivation or even a quick energy boost. Lots of foods are known to help concentration and focus; find out what works for you and include them in your diet when studying.  It is important to keep your brain hydrated, as well. Drink water instead of energy drinks or several cups of coffee as both can be dehydrating. Hydration and eating well will help your brain learn but also retain knowledge. They will also help you sleep better, which sets you up or a productive day of study. Tip 8: Take breaks Our bodies and our minds go through peaks and troughs throughout the day. So, breaks are essential to help recharge and reset. Plan regular, short breaks into your study schedule, along with a longer lunchbreak. Use the longer break to get some fresh air to help clear the cobwebs.  Being outside also free up your mind; the wide-open spaces help to calm the brain too. Don’t overdo your study time. Shorter productive sessions are better than long days. Have an evening routine to wind down. Or change your focus with a movie or some other calming activity. Best of Luck We hope these eight study tips help you. The very best of luck with your exam preparation and your exams this year.  Be kind to yourself and be proud of your hard work. Moira Dunne is Founder of beproductive.ie  

Embracing a positive perspective is a key ingredient for personal wellbeing. Aaron O’Connell asks you to consider whether you’re a glass half full or glass half empty person, and he provides a useful exercise to help you view life with a different filter and to boost your well-being. Some questions for you to consider Do you have tendency to see things positively where you are focusing on the good things that happen around you, or do you focus on the negatives, those obstacles and problems you face?  If you have a to-do list and you manage to successfully complete 19 out of 20 things, are you happy about the long list of things you’ve accomplished, or are you upset about that one thing that you didn’t get to finish? It’s your choice A hundred good things (little highlights) and one bad thing (a little low-light) might happen during your day. You have the opportunity to appreciate and remember all the good things, or to focus only on the bad things. You can look at life through a different filter. Embracing a positive perspective One useful exercise I recommend to the athletes, students and business people I work with, and indeed practice myself every night at bedtime, is to recall seven positive things that happen during the day. It’s something I picked up from internationally acclaimed sport psychologist, Dr. Terry Orlick. Before you sleep, look back over your day chronologically and highlight those good things that happened. They don’t have to be major events. Little highlights will do. “I had a lovely breakfast.” “The sun was shining today.” “I got a call from a good friend.” “I went for a lovely walk today.” You could begin this exercise by recalling three positives and increase by one each time after a few days. Look for different ones each day. As Dr. Orlick would say, it’s like “using a yellow magic marker to highlight all the good things you do, see, hear, taste, feel, and learn in a day.” Even better, write them down in a journal or on your phone. You’ll get a buzz out of revisiting and re-reading these when you’ve had a tough day. Using a different filter and living with a positive perspective is like becoming your own best friend. It’ll change your outlook in life for the good. Challenge yourself to look for seven highlights a day. Once you start looking for them and finding them, your day and your life immediately become better. You’ll experience a boost in wellbeing along with an increase in gratitude. Aaron O’Connell is the owner of Mind Your Performance. He provides consultancy and training in mental skills, mental well-being, and performance enhancement for the education, business, and sports sector. Thrive is the Institute’s dedicated wellbeing hub which provides emotional and practical support to our members, students, and their family members for life. Should you find yourself in a difficult situation, the team at Thrive can help steer you through life’s ups and downs.  Talk to us today on mobile: (353) 86 024 3294 or email us.